Titania22 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 I want them to understand the problem isnt them. In reality, "its not you, its me" is sometimes true. Yes, it's often times true. I agree, but I am still not convinced that the guys in question, would choose me over someone younger and/or lived closer to them. I get the point of the thread, but I feel the reality is some guys want relationships and some guys don't. And even the ones that do, like you said, have other factors that play a role in determining whether to give a girl a shot.
Titania22 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 condesending is a gross understatement. what i've noticed is gobs of men won't help each other out of a difficut place wheras woman are more inclined to help each other out of a difficult place. I don't think women help each other out when it comes to dating. But we do help each other when it comes to other things.
xdahliax Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Of course they will date a good looking guy, but they have an upper bounds. In other words at some point he becomes to good looking for them to date. The exact reasons they gave varied. Meh, I'd just look at them and then fondle him. Lol jk...but no, I wouldn't care. I'd just feel lucky.
irc333 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Sorry but thats an excuse. You think women don't get their heart broken? The reality is that men need the companionship and emotional connection less than women. Most men would be happy doing random girls consistently while they get to do what they want and enjoy their various hobbies. Now this might change as they get older and lonlier, but usually holds true during their younger years. Right, the real title of this thread should be, "Men, they love to spread their seed!"
Author kaylan Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 i can read and i can also read between the lines. you sure aren't cautions about giving your entire body to some random chick. ??? Who says I sleep with random women? I have hookups, but trust me, the girls arent random at all. We always tend to have mutual friends actually.
Author kaylan Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 you're very condesending. don't you dare call him lucky. i have no idea of his age but i'd hazard a guess of much younger than i am. if he were to reach anywhere near 33 without relations or sex, boy is that pure hell. a primal need not getting met. its turned me into an angry person. you haven't been where he is and you sure as hell haven't been where i'm at. I said hes lucky to not have been through that kind of pain. I didnt say hes lucky to not have dated much yet. But Ill say this, were both lucky not to be the bitter "angry dude" you are.
Pyro Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 This is false. Hence why he said that it was what he sees IN HIS EXPERIENCE I don't believe that the number is small. I believe that the number of people are far higher than that.
Emilia Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I think any healthy person gets sick of the dating pool and the 'options' after a while. It is draining to keep looking and deal with the flaking or the lack of meaningful connections. I also think that most of us stumble on people we fall in love with despite ourselves. I think that ultimately everyone wants to be loved.
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