Author SmileFace Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 Don't go to grad school.............. Okay now that I got that out of the way. Sure date the guys who didn't like you when you were heavier. I'd date a girl from HS who didn't like me when I was more loserly like. You see we both got more attractive since hs. Bam! lol, We sure did. Plus I was thinking more MBA but probably not I sent you an email today. Go check - thanks.
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Do I seem like I think that physical attraction is not important? These guys were never mean to me. If you are interested in them, go for it. You are not the same person you were in high school, and it's not just about what you weigh. 1
yongyong Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 All women are brainwashed here. Men are not visual animals so we don't care about looks at all. What we don't like is Fattitude. Many fat chicks are angry, bitter, jealous, depressed ,greedy and whiny. those kinds of behavior totally kills our boner. If they act like a prom queen girl who is well rounded, happy and generous , I am sure they could be popular too. The thing is, you can never act like that unless you become one................. I hope you get what I am trying to say
Author SmileFace Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 I will act aloof whole time instead of getting excited about her talking to me. I would f-ck her, pound her like angry man, cum inside her mouth and make her swallow it. So I shouldn't do some variation of this?
yongyong Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Girls feel superior after cock teasing guys and leaving them with blue balls. Guys feel superior after banging a chick (especially in a dominant manner) If you are going to feel like you had a revenge after banging those guys, GO AHEAD. (trust me they are not going to whine about being used for sex. Guys are cool like that) So I shouldn't do some variation of this?
Author SmileFace Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 Girls feel superior after cock teasing guys and leaving them with blue balls. Guys feel superior after banging a chick (especially in a dominant manner) If you are going to feel like you had a revenge after banging those guys, GO AHEAD. (trust me they are not going to whine about being used for sex. Guys are cool like that) Well no the stereotypical women version. You know, free dinner, free rides, nice gifts - the works. I am being cheeky. Anywho - I wonder if the responses will be differernt if I actually liked these guys back then.
kaylan Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 If someone didn't like me before, I really wouldn't date them. People change, but they don't change that much. Many parts of your personality are there for life, even though you can make mistakes. I can still identify with my high school self. I regret very little so if they didn't like me back then, they probably won't now or they were just being a jerk. Either way, I'm not really interested in getting to know them. There are plenty of other people on this earth that I can get to know. I disagree. While adults may not change much after getting a firm sense of self around our mid 20s, A LOT of changing goes on from childhood into adolescence, and A LOT more from adolescence into adulthood. There are people I didnt click with in junior high or high school that I can really talk to about certain things now. The opposite is true as well.
MrNate 2.0 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Well, we saw how pretty you were in your avatar. I'd want a shot, and i sure can't blame them for wanting one heh. I'd say go for it. 2
phineas Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 As a former fat-guy who got attention, if they turned me down & that was it, yes i'd give them another chance. If they were mean i'd put them on the spot & ask them what has changed that their all of a sudden interested. If they went out with me but led me on i'd invite them over for a "movie" 2
123321 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 But I have change so much over the years. I don't get how that makes them shallow? Me either, but the fat or ugly chicks will try to have you stay miserable with them. Go out and have fun, and stay thin if you can.
Author SmileFace Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 Me either, but the fat or ugly chicks will try to have you stay miserable with them. Go out and have fun, and stay thin if you can. I will not get back fat. It isn't option. I am back to my lowest weight and I am entertaining going celibate until I reach my goal weight. That may just work.
yessy21 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Noone should be judged by looks. If they didnt like you before why would they like you now? what if you get condemmed to a wheel chair, or gain 20 pounds while pregnant? will they stop liking you again? memories dont change and poeple just mature their B>S
123321 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Noone should be judged by looks. Everyone is judged by their looks, it's part of life and it's useful. 1
Eve Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 OP, if they were not mean to you, give them a chance! Especially if they are hot. As long as you don't approach this as a means to try to put a line through past perceptions of you which you were not able to counter at the time. That could be sticky for you as really you should be enjoying who you are now... if you know what I mean? Take care, Eve x 2
RiverRunning Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 I would give them a chance if you're interested. Of course, that would change if they blatantly ignored you, were cruel to you, said things behind your back, etc. (yes, I listed 'ignored' in there - knew many men who wouldn't even talk to me when I was heavier. One guy and I shared a class together and I noticed he was a Final Fantasy fan. I tried to start a discussion, and he promptly shut it down. He told a mutual friend, "I'm not into her at all and I don't want her to talk to me." We had never talked before or after that). Men grow up. And there's no indication here that they absolutely were not interested when you were younger - although it's certainly a strong possibility. Maybe they were young and afraid of admitting a crush. Maybe they were fearful of what their friends would think. And now, years later with you back - physically changed or not - they want to try their luck.
Oxy Moronovich Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 OP, thanks for this thread. It reminds me that I need to get back into correspondence with my grade school crush. From 6th to 12th grade I had this crush on a girl named Megan. But in grade school I was too shy around girls for my own good. So I must have seemed aloof or uninterested to many of them for my own good. I grew up in an extreme conservative household. My parents discouraged me from dating any girl other than the ones who went to our church. Only after graduating and living on my own did I get the balls to date whoever I liked. So back in late 2010, I started a correspondence with my old crush Megan via FB. She told me, "I had a huge crush on you too. But I never thought you were interested in me. I didn't know it was because you were so shy. I was just as shy as you though, if not moreso." She's married now (we're both 28), and we try to keep things only friendly. Like I said, thanks for reminding me to get back in touch with her. We haven't talked in months (FB isn't my thing). Good luck with dating though.
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