JSJS Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 I'm definitely over her and in no way want any relationship with her ever again but towards the end of our relationship she treated me like absolute garbage and did a few horrible things. I was more shocked than anything at first, then felt humiliated but now I'm actually more angry than anything. Hopefully these are stages of getting over it all but I don't know and it's unlike me to feel this way. We work together and sometimes need to speak which has been very difficult over the last couple of weeks and led to a few heated exchanges. I want to move on and and honestly don't care what she's up to any more. I'm not trying to make life hard for her and don't want any kind of payback but seeing her every day reminds of how little respect she had for me and just opens the wound again. She has been difficult with me at work and while I let her walk over me in our personal life I have a job to do and am not prepared to let her jeopardise that for me. Any advice would be appreciated but changing jobs isn't an option for me.
Svet74 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Yes anger is part of the stage. since you work with her and have to see her it will take you a while to get over her. try to avoid her as much as possible. thats really all i can tell you. I see my ex at church but at least I can not go here and there so it helps 1
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