domple Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Hi Everyone, I went on a date with this really nice girl last night for an hour. It wasnt like explosions or anythign liek that but she seems nice and I would like to get to know her better. Anyway towards the end of the date we lost conversation but she was very much talking as if we would meet again. What I am wondering is I sent he re a text a few hours laters saying it was nice meeting her and if she would like to meet me again and she wrote back "Hi XXX, it was a pleasure meeting you. Maybe some time next week". She does study and work fulltime so just wondering have I been friend zoned or she actually would like to meet. Just curious and im probably reading too much into it
Casablanca Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Two things, first she suggested going out again, so that is a good sign Second thing The friend zone means one thing and one thing only; she is not attracted to what you look like and/or is not attracted to who you are. Dating isn’t a Mario or Sonic game where you have to reach the end of the level (or in the dating case, reach the bedroom) within a predetermined time. If you do not turn her on in both looks and personality, you won’t get with her and you will simply be a friend. You will be a friend because she has NO interest in dating you, not because you took too long to make a move. There are a couple exceptions, such as working together or being the ex of a friend, but for the most part, the Friend Zone is bull crap. Just remember that guys; don’t ever worry about taking too long to make a move and being put in the friend zone Just keep talking with her, if she doent make time for you, she isn't interested, simple as that. Good luck!
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