The_Face Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Last time I talked with my ex was on the phone Thursday. It wasn't a good conversation. And even though right now is the time where we have so much we should be saying and doing for eachother (she's preggo) I think we've reached that point of NC. Who knows how long it will last? I'm figuring I'm not going to try and reach her until the paternity test is about to happen. Then, once that's been done, back to NC until the results come in. Basically all I'm getting at here is it feels good to finally have NC with the ex. Sure, it's only been a couple days, but considering how much I've been with her and talked to her in the last four months, that's still saying something. She's pissed, and I'm just done stressing. So NC is the best thing for both of us. We'll see how things go. We've been broken up since the end of May, but this is the first time we're actually making a conscious effort to not speak to eachother. NC is hard, but especially when there's a kid on the way, that very well may be mine.
River Rain Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Good for you. No contact is the only way to heal and move on. Well, obviously if it's your kid, you'll have to figure out a way to manage things with her. But for now, it'll be doing you a lot of good.
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