HumptyDumpty Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Well...just don't. I've been NC for nearly 5 weeks! For me, a huge effort, to pass fro like 10 texts to zero from one moment to another. Feelings were involved as well. And, well, hard time NC you see, missing him for whatever reason so I thought I'd be friendly....and send a funny text. No response. Another one, the next day, if everything is alright. Nada. So it doesn't only leave me thinking if something might have happened. But it hurts being ignored. It's not like I've decided to just go NC, I got hurt before, having heard a sentence which was mean, untrue and just hurtful, that's why I went NC. So... in a way, I was and still am waiting for a tiny excuse. Nothing. I even feel like I'm the evil witch here! So please, don't break NC. Unless you can seriously handle being ignored. And if you have the slightest doubt- keep NC up!! Since chances are high that you'll get disappointed, hurt and sad all over this. And then, NC will automatically restart (due to silence)! And to restart at 0, my dear, the days will be hard to get by after such a long effort... Just some venting, maybe it'll be useful guys! Good luck in any cases! 2
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 I hope this helps people that are thinking about contacting their ex. You are right, there is never a reason to end NC if they were the one who walked away. I'm sorry you're back at square 1, only looking up from here. 1
Author HumptyDumpty Posted October 7, 2012 Author Posted October 7, 2012 Well, it's not nice being ignored, I have to admit, it's horrible, so one has to be capable to handle this. Now, I did get a reply. Now, most guys will think it's the goal! But no, it isn't! After this dispute, we both chose to ignore each other and after 1 month, I tried to be friendly! But now he doesn't want anything to do with me, at all. Which makes me a bit angrier, since I can't properly talk to him and texts will most probably be ignored. Now, it's best to stay NC in those cases, there are people that aren't worth our time, attention, worries and feelings... And on the other hand, souls in this world longing for this attention, when I think of abandoned animals for example! Well, i say, this, do what you think is right, breaking NC or not, it doesn't matter since everybody will learn from it, it's just a question of time. But in my opinion, take your time to think, most of all if this person is worth the effort! If not, go along with NC, this person isn't just worth the sorrow and pain... 1
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