canuckprincess Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 I am watching a show called The Mistress, holy crap can I relate. I thought my relationship was different, nope just like so many others. Oh well doesn't change a thing, it is what it is!
ThatJustHappened Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Everybody thinks they're the exception, but most people are the rule. That's why it's the rule. I'm not talking about you specifically..I'm not even just talking about this forum..I mean in life in general. I'm guilty of it too.
Sporty Girl Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 I am watching a show called The Mistress, holy crap can I relate. I thought my relationship was different, nope just like so many others. Oh well doesn't change a thing, it is what it is! What kind of relationship do you have?
Never Say Never Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 I am watching a show called The Mistress, holy crap can I relate. I thought my relationship was different, nope just like so many others. Oh well doesn't change a thing, it is what it is! Guard your heart, that is the only way I could have lasted...... How long have you been in R with MM?
ThatJustHappened Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Guard your heart, that is the only way I could have lasted...... How long have you been in R with MM? Or you could just not get involved with married men..that would probably be easier. 1
Sauron Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Guard your heart, that is the only way I could have lasted...... How long have you been in R with MM? So how do you guard your heart, what does that really mean at a conscious level and what does it mean in practice?
UpwardForward Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 So how do you guard your heart, what does that really mean at a conscious level and what does it mean in practice? Imo, an interpretation could be it's not insensitive, but actually quite logical to expect a relationship where the two are equally yoked. That the two are both available for M and with the same goals, interests, values, etc. etc Where the two enhance one another's lives, equally. wholly.
Author canuckprincess Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 Or you could just not get involved with married men..that would probably be easier. It was never my intention to fall in love with or get involved with a married man, I can't change the past. Your right, it would of been easier.
Author canuckprincess Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 Guard your heart, that is the only way I could have lasted...... How long have you been in R with MM? I've been in a R with a MM for close to 7 years.
ThatJustHappened Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 It was never my intention to fall in love with or get involved with a married man, I can't change the past. Your right, it would of been easier. No you can't, but you can change the future. So why don't you?
Got it Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I don't think romantic relationships, in general, have a lot of variety. The fine details vary but the subtext is usually the same. Humans are pretty predictable and our interactions have finite variations.
Author canuckprincess Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 I can't answer for the OP, but for myself it's simply that my life is better with him in it than it is without him. I couldn't agree more, my life is much better since he came into it close to 7 years ago. Without him I most likely would of stayed in a toxic marriage. He gave me the strength to make choices I might not of made if I didn't have him to lean on.
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