Dancin Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 He immediately turned into a man slut, and he's dating a girl that's sucked 15 guys *****, and shes older than him. He told her he'd only talk to her if she'd do sexual things with him too. And calls her names. He always treated me good while we were dating. He never pressured me into doing things. He now gets his friends to bully me at school. They know I've been upset because he's such a man slut now, and I did act jealous of this girl, but at least I'm a 15 year old virgin unlike her! He also is so open about his relationship with her when he was so quiet about ours. He's taking things so fast with her. He even gave her this bracelet he always wears which completely broke my heart. What's up with this? Please help! He's not the guy I liked for over a year.
Appleness Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 At 15, I have no idea why you have to come on here for advice instead of having parents, friends, teachers, etc talk to you in person but hey, the world can be a tough place, so here goes... I don't think that anyone is ever too young or too old to fall in love. I remember the first guy I fell in love with in the sixth grade. He started school third day into the new school year. Just walked in, and BLAM! Just like that, I love. I've never been one of those girls that put out to get a guy (in school or otherwise). I never even kissed a guy until I was 18 and that's okay. Take some time to read other people's posts while you're here. You start to notice a few patterns: 1. serious relationships, as in long term ones, don't really start happening until about 10 years after where you are now. Even if you do go into a long term relationship, there is a very high risk that you will grow apart from the other person or vice versa because you're not done growing yet. 2. I have no idea how much money you get from your allowance but let me tell you something that these relationship "experts" claim to only share with you after you shell out the price of a prom dress. People will not cherish what comes easily to them. In other words, even if you pursued this guy and got him, most likely he'll just get bored in a few months to leave for the next girl. It's tough but it's life. The sooner you psych yourself for the reality of things, the easier it will be. That being said, you're doing the right thing by staying a virgin until you find the right person to come along. What his friends are doing to you, that's called peer pressure and you'll see them doing it with sex, with drugs, and they might even pressure you about money too. Don't cave under the pressure and do something just because someone wants you to and they won't like you if you don't. You'll be setting yourself up for a lot of pain in the future. Ask yourself if that's what you really want and don't be afraid to do the right thing even if means you might lose some friends. They were never really friends anyway if they can't support you. Guys will come and go, sweetheart and you're only 15. It's not legal for him to want sex from you anyway. Cherish yourself and know your worth, because at least you were smart enough to say no and post here instead. Stay in school and don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you'll regret later. Good luck
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