bobsmith76 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 if you like the guy that's stalking you, it's called courtship. if you don't like the guy that's courting you it's called stalking. this is to illustrate the immense hypocrisy of women who try to label men stalkers. women need to start calling stalking what it is: courtship from someone you don't like. this ridiculous charge of someone as a stalker is way overblown, all's it is a guy looking for love but stumbling on bad luck. of course, if the women goes out of her way to tell the guy that she's not interested, such as calling the cops, and the guy still doesn't get it then of course he becomes inappropriate, otherwise, there's nothing wrong with going after the woman of your dreams.
SmileFace Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 I found this post "creepy". Teehee. anyway tons of words are used and misused all the time based on someone's judgement of others -- such is life.
xdahliax Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Lol...a girl needs to call the cops on a guy to let him know that she's not interested? No. A girl just needs to say "I'm not interested". If I see him everywhere I go, if he texts me/calls me 15 times a day...that is not just being hopeful, that's stalking. There is nothing wrong with having unrequited feelings for someone, but you also have to be considerate of how you're making the person feel.
mesmerized Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 It's like saying for women rape is only rape only because women don't consent and it shows hypocrisy on women's side. Do you realize how ridiculous your post sounds? If your attention and company is unwanted, gtfo, as simple as that.
The dot Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 if you like the guy that's stalking you, it's called courtship. if you don't like the guy that's courting you it's called stalking. this is to illustrate the immense hypocrisy of women who try to label men stalkers. women need to start calling stalking what it is: courtship from someone you don't like. this ridiculous charge of someone as a stalker is way overblown, all's it is a guy looking for love but stumbling on bad luck. of course, if the women goes out of her way to tell the guy that she's not interested, such as calling the cops, and the guy still doesn't get it then of course he becomes inappropriate, otherwise, there's nothing wrong with going after the woman of your dreams. The question is, why do YOU want to continue "courting" someone who doesn't like you? Is your life that pathetic? You might want to think about that.
Author bobsmith76 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 The question is, why do YOU want to continue "courting" someone who doesn't like you? Is your life that pathetic? You might want to think about that. I didn't even say anything about myself. You might want to think about the state of mind of a person who so easily insults others. All people who quickly insult others are insensitive. Good luck with your life.
orionboxing Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 I think unrequited love is one of the most beautiful things ever. There is something about being so devoted to someone...I think it's noble in it's own way. The object of your desire should be flattered that someone cares that much about them. Let that person occupy your thoughts....but don't stalk or harass them, ever. I've been in the courtship process too many times to mention and I can safely say that I know when to bail and when to pursue. I once had a crush on a girl - just amazingly beautiful and fit everything physically I wanted in a woman - but she was unavailable. I had to post a note in big black lettering on my refrigerator that simply said "Forget about (girls name)." Lame, but it worked.
KathyM Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Courting requires consent by the person being courted. If you are following some girl around who has either told you she's not interested, or you are following without making your intentions known, then that is creepy, and could be considered stalking. As a woman who has been stalked before, it's not a good feeling to be followed around by someone I'm not interested in. 1
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