rjl3wy Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 So I'd like some insight into something that happened to me last night. Little bit of background with my ex, we broke up back in June, she got so cold with me and I tried fighting for her all summer. Made mistakes along the way but she didn't want me. So I went n/c at the start of sept. I owe her mom money for bailing me out of school debt. My plan was to pay my stuff off and get back on track and then start paying her off. So last night I went out with a girl to the bar. My ex works at a bar just down the street from this one. So end of the night the girl and I left and went back to my car to go home, which was in a parking garage. As we get there my ex is getting into the car and leaving. Anyways this girls I'm with is fine as hell and she's hanging off me. My ex sees this and out of the corner of my eye I can see she's giving us a dirty look. Now for the past 3 months since the breakup my ex never texts me and rarely answers my texts. If she does its just leave me alone or something along those lines. And she never answers my calls. So about 20 mins after she sees us.. I get a text from her saying "hey. Hope you had a good night. I'm glad you found someone and got a car. I just wanted to remind you of the money you owe my mom. I know you know how to do it thru email so u cant use the excuse you don't want to see me. Thanks" I didn't reply but while I was at this girls house I accidentally pocket dialed her. I have terrible luck. And for once, she actually answers my phone call. He text me after saying "good job pocket dialing". I haven't replied. Not sure how I should go abouts it. I won't lie I want her back even tho she hurt me. But I have no idea why she texted me out of the blue when she knows I'm gonna pay her mom back. Any thoughts?
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 I think you already know the answer here. Why even entertain the idea of investing any emotion into her? You tried that all summer only for her to ignore you. Ignore her, not dispite her but because you're moving on. Pay your debt off (that's what men do!) then erase everything about her. These contacts are just to get a rise out of you because she's jealous, don't give her the pleasure, remember she left you!! She looked at your situation and thought "I can do better" "I'm not willing to try" "I know he wants to get back with me (during the summer) but I don't care".
MonsterMash Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 You'd get major player points if you'd have pocket dialed the ex while you were banging the new chick. 1
Mike_d Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 f.ck her, you worked for it and she didn't want it. keep doing what you are doing, pay the mom back, and ignore everything from this one. its a bottomless pit that you'll never be happy in. until such time that she is crawling back begging crying pleading and she does it for 2 months then there isn't anything to talk about.
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