AccInfusion Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Hello, I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago. Since then i have called her once which she answered and we said our hellos. I sent her a text 3 days ago but have had no reply. the text was just asking how she was and if she wanted to know the latest details about my buisness. Should i send her a text saying "I hate the way things ended between us. I apologise for my behavouir at the point of our split, I realise the mistakes I made and im sorry for the anguish I must have put you through when we broke it off" Is it worth sending something like that or is that completely the wrong thing to do ? I miss her like crazy x
Author AccInfusion Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 Help, should i just leave her alone or do you think an apology would ease thwe tension or situation ? if she is feeling any at all :-/ she dumped me and i dont know if shes even looked back. I know for a fact his is harder for me than her.
TaraMaiden Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Do NOT contact her. You'll get on her nerves in no time. You don't need to contact her for any reason whatsoever. The only reason you're keeping in touch - is to keep in touch. Please, show some dignity. Read the "All-New Caliguy No Contact Guide" in my signature/link. leave her alone, she'll end up resenting she ever went out with you at this rate. And no, NC is not to get her back, and it won't.
Author AccInfusion Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 That no contact guide is great ! I really wish I found this site earlier. Nothing more for me to do. Nothing more i can do. Thank you for the help. I always appreciate a nice reply. Thank you x
Calico Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Nothing more for me to do. Nothing more i can do. "Doing nothing" is hard enough work. If (when) she contacts you in a few days, don't respond instantly, but come here and post about it first. Few things require an immediate reaction, texts and calls from exes are not among them. Likewise, when you get the urges to contact her because you think she'll forget about you or that she won't know how serious you are about her, also come here and post.
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