mpa Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 I don't know if anything any of us can say will make you feel better. It sucks. But please post here as much as you want instead of anything else you may be wanting to do. Be angry, cry as much as you need to. But let it out here.
Svet74 Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 You did this, learned your lesson, and dont let him do it again! Trust me. its takes your power away and makes you look so weak and stupid. I let my ex do that for 7 months after our breakup. and it took me another 8 to just get over him. Its not worth it. Im in such a better place now. Dont let this guy use and abuse you. its damaging
foreverastone Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 That is what annoys me throughout the whole thing, is that your ex has all the control. He decides when to break no contact, when to have no contact etc. If I were you the next time he calls asking for the same thing, go a long with it and then suddenly kick him to the curb! Just remember there was a time when you were single and you didn't know your ex and you were happy, find that part of yourself because it is always there. You just need to let it come back out again )))) ooh and i completely agree that alcohol makes you feel worst, especially the hangovers in the morning. It seriously amplifies everything that you feel Hope you feel better soon
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