starla33 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 texted a guy i went on 2 awesome dates with. He ignored me. And please don't give me the whole speech about how he will text back a few days later (doesn't happen usually, if you are interested....like he used to be...you would text back as soon as you could). How the hell do people get relationships out of online dating when 90% of the people on there are always looking for something better? Going on another date the next day after your awesome date? UGH it just makes me sick.
SmileFace Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Truthfully couldn't pay me to do it again. I have had more luck meeting decent guys online when a relationship wasn't the goal, go figure! I am not going to BS you but he probably isn't interested or the text didn't go thru -- however he still didn't contact you. If you are going to play the game continue to play -- OLD is surely a numbers game sadly enough. On to the next one - he isn't important enough, you probably won't remember his name in a couple of months anyway. I am hoping to start back dating in a couple of months and have been looking at a couple of groups and sporting teams to join - hopefully it happens that way for me. Good luck with OLD - it does work sometime. There is proof from many long time members on this board - just takes time hun. :-)
Author starla33 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 Truthfully couldn't pay me to do it again. I have had more luck meeting decent guys online when a relationship wasn't the goal, go figure! I am not going to BS you but he probably isn't interested or the text didn't go thru -- however he still didn't contact you. If you are going to play the game continue to play -- OLD is surely a numbers game sadly enough. On to the next one - he isn't important enough, you probably won't remember his name in a couple of months anyway. I am hoping to start back dating in a couple of months and have been looking at a couple of groups and sporting teams to join - hopefully it happens that way for me. Good luck with OLD - it does work sometime. There is proof from many long time members on this board - just takes time hun. :-) I've been at it for hmmm about on and off 6 years OLD. The guy may have lost interest, WHATEVER really i've had guys re-appear days later (deal breaker). So either way does not matter to me. I'm just very sick of this happening. They are so so soooo into me on the dates and I show interest and they show interest then they peace out? Or act not interested and take days to get back to me? Ummmm what girl is ok with this crap?
Author starla33 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 Also I get tons of guys at bars that talk to me when I go out. They get my # and text me that night. I text back and then never hear from them again. So somebody please tell me somewhere else to meet guys. Guys don't go up to me on the street often and work is not an option. I also go to networking events and all the guys there have girlfriends (the ones I'm interested in anyway). I don't want to die on stupid OLD sites where I'm belittled like this and have people go OOOH but you are so pretty and outgoing and fun why are you single? UM OLD!!!
kaylan Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 texted a guy i went on 2 awesome dates with. He ignored me. And please don't give me the whole speech about how he will text back a few days later (doesn't happen usually, if you are interested....like he used to be...you would text back as soon as you could). How the hell do people get relationships out of online dating when 90% of the people on there are always looking for something better? Going on another date the next day after your awesome date? UGH it just makes me sick. I guess you werent that awesome in his view It happens. Dont be bothered by it. Just roll the dice again and take another turn.
yongyong Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Hm....that's weird. Usually guys will 'work' with a girl even though she is bit annoying for a sake of bang. maybe they figured it's not even worth to go through the hassle?
kaylan Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 PS - OLD isnt the problem. Seems your meeting guys who arent much compatible with you and/or dont like you enough.
Author starla33 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 I guess you werent that awesome in his view It happens. Dont be bothered by it. Just roll the dice again and take another turn. Read that I have been doing it on and off for 6 years. Outcome is usually the same. Guys just keep on dating (actually same guys are on the site from 6 years ago that I went out with....so hmm NOBODY is good enough for them apparently)
kaylan Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 ^Some guys may like to keep dating and enjoying the single life. Other guys may just not have found the right girl for them, despite looking for her. Theres no way to know which guy is which unless youre close to any of them.
Author starla33 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 Hm....that's weird. Usually guys will 'work' with a girl even though she is bit annoying for a sake of bang. maybe they figured it's not even worth to go through the hassle? My profile makes it very clear I don't do that and am looking for a relationship. So smart guys wouldn't even try.
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