jay27 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 I had a suspicion about my live-in boyfriend of two years. I checked his email, which led me to a site called Ashley Madison. It is a site for attached people looking for affairs. I found his bio: Believe it or not, I'm just looking for a hot and steamy affair with a gorgeous woman...no strings attached. Whether it's an ongoing thing or a one-night stand all depends on the woman. I am in a good relationship but the excitement has just gone out of it. I'm not looking to get serious with anyone else...just some good, clean, shake the walls sex. He also had a picture up, it was one that was taken of us on holiday, but he had digitally removed me from the picture. I also found an incredibly explicit email from him to another woman. Can't repeat anything that he said on this post... I thought I was going to marry him...I thought he was about to propose...everything seemed perfect... He says he was just bored at work and that it meant nothing. I don't know whether to leave him or not...two years is so much time to throw away, but I feel that this was emotional cheating. He says it never went past the online stuff, but how do I believe him? What does anyone else think? Was this cheating? Should I really throw two years away over this.
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 Has the excitement gone out of it? Are you communicating when it comes your sexuality? Have you asked him what he would like to change about the relationship so that it's more exciting for him? I guess the first thing I'd be concerned with is why he felt the excitement was gone from the relationship and then I'd consider whether or not I wanted to leave. If you don't fix "why" he did this there is a chance he'll do it again.
dorothys Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 I would not throw away a 2yr relationship so easily. But, you want to make sure that your boyfriend doesn't have issues that will cause major promblems down the road. Perhaps you and him need couples counseling. It doesn't hurt, and it might even strengthen the relationship.
Starnette83 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 hes a jerk, my bf did those kinda things to me and i stayed and forgive him his excuse was always "i was bored" or "i got angry at u" ..it justgets worse and they actually will meet a girl in real life and then dump u, if i were u just take a mini break..dont necessarily break up but show him it really pisses u off, if u let it slide, he will NEVER change and u will eventually break up..
Recommended Posts