pofi Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 I was at a party on Tuesday (we are in our twenties) for students on the Dean's List. Anyway there was a really cute guy there and we talked on and off through the party and at one point I looked at him across the room and and we made eye contact (this happened more than once). Later we were sitting opposite each other and we talked quite a lot and he seemed really cute, slightly shy even. After the party broke up we ended up walking back together and we talked all the way up to a cab station and on the way we realised we had lived in the same dorm in our first year and he was like 'How come I never noticed you?!' Anyway he walked me up to a cab, and then just as I was to get in, he said, 'I don't mean this in an inappropriate way, but could I have your number?' Anyway when I got back and I texted him to say I've reached and he replied that he was 'glad I reached safely ' Then I saw him randomly on campus yesterday and he was with friends and his face brightened up and he was all like 'hey how are you? how's it going?'. That evening he added on Facebook. And today we exchanged a few texts (he initiated the texts) and then I was like 'Maybe see you around' and his reply was 'Yeah I hope so ' I really really like him. How do I do this?
Author pofi Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 I know all the signs are out there that he likes me, but I have no self confidence mainly because he's really popular and has all these women like him. I usually have a lot of guys after me, but suffer from self-confidence issues which stem from a bullying incident that took place in high school where several girls took a major dislike towards me because I had moved to that school in my junior year and I had a lot of guys take interest in me. I was called ridiculous names and generally bitched about for two years. As a result, I always doubt if a guy likes me. Any other level headed woman would realise that this guy liked her and just go with the flow. I need some reassurance though. I don't know why I am turning to unknown people on this forum, but I really would appreciate someone else's views on this issue with this guy. Thanks
ScreamingTrees Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Just go for it. Meet up with the guy, enjoy yourself and his company.. Take it from there.
Minka333 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 I know all the signs are out there that he likes me, but I have no self confidence mainly because he's really popular and has all these women like him. I usually have a lot of guys after me, but suffer from self-confidence issues which stem from a bullying incident that took place in high school where several girls took a major dislike towards me because I had moved to that school in my junior year and I had a lot of guys take interest in me. I was called ridiculous names and generally bitched about for two years. As a result, I always doubt if a guy likes me. Any other level headed woman would realise that this guy liked her and just go with the flow. I need some reassurance though. I don't know why I am turning to unknown people on this forum, but I really would appreciate someone else's views on this issue with this guy. Thanks I totally relate to this. I was also bullied when i was younger just because of the extra attention i got from guys. They would write nasty things on the board, make side comments..etc. because of that i also got insecure. It's like why do they hate me for something i can't control. Eventually, you'll also get over that phase. I mean i still have 'bouts of insecurity every now and then but i have somewhat learned not to let it affect me too much. Re the guy, just act cool. He obviously likes you and must've seen something special about you. Just get to know him better and gauge if he is worthy for something more. 1
CC12 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 As a result, I always doubt if a guy likes me. Why do you need to know right now? This is part of the fun of dating. "Does he/doesn't he like me?" Ooh exciting. Just have fun with it. If you want to be forward, ask him if he wants to go on a date with you. If not, then be flirty and not clingy or weird and see where it goes. (It does sound like he's interested in you.)
Author pofi Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 OMGGG! So today he was online on Facebook and I said hello. We talked for about half an hour and then then he was like do you want to meet up for coffee ))))) This is a date, isn't it?! Well yay! Thanks guys for answering my first question :")
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