nowwhatnow Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 so i have chilled with this guy on 3 separate occasions and each one was more fun and exciting than the next. last week he came over to my place and i thought something might happen because we were talking for hours and really enjoying ourselves but he left and nothing. he did mention that we should hang out next week. i really like him and after last week's hang out i am quite sure he likes me too. not 100%, but pretty sure. we were flirting and we text all the time. i think we are both shy but i really want him to make the move (because i am too chicken). what are your thoughts? has this happened to you before?
lilyblue Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 so i have chilled with this guy on 3 separate occasions and each one was more fun and exciting than the next. last week he came over to my place and i thought something might happen because we were talking for hours and really enjoying ourselves but he left and nothing. he did mention that we should hang out next week. i really like him and after last week's hang out i am quite sure he likes me too. not 100%, but pretty sure. we were flirting and we text all the time. i think we are both shy but i really want him to make the move (because i am too chicken). what are your thoughts? has this happened to you before? I'm in the same situation. I don't know what to tell you, but empathize!
mortensorchid Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Sorry to say, but I don't think this is a good situation. If either one of you is too chicken to do anything, then neither one of you will get it off the ground. I hate to say it, but it's just not going to happen unless one of you DOES something.
HeldbyGravity Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 so i have chilled with this guy on 3 separate occasions and each one was more fun and exciting than the next. last week he came over to my place and i thought something might happen because we were talking for hours and really enjoying ourselves but he left and nothing. he did mention that we should hang out next week. i really like him and after last week's hang out i am quite sure he likes me too. not 100%, but pretty sure. we were flirting and we text all the time. i think we are both shy but i really want him to make the move (because i am too chicken). what are your thoughts? has this happened to you before? Well first, it's great that you've found a guy you can have fun with! He seems to keep wanting to get to know you, and he IS showing interest in wanting to keep hanging out with you. A guy who likes a girl will find the silliest excuse to hang out or to talk to her. If he flirted with you the last time, see if he flirts with you the next time. If it continues, his intentions will be more obvious to you. I mean, if you were SURE that someone would say Yes to being asked out, would you do it? I have been through this before, twice. The guy liked me both times. The first time, he didn't know if he should make a move, as he had to gather the courage first. I ended up actually talking to his brother and asking, "If I asked him out, would he say yes?" and apparently we were Both asking his brother's advice. His brother was sick of us both asking about it, haha. So I called him on the phone intending to ask him out, and he beat me to it. The second guy is the guy I am currently "dating". No jumping straight into a relationship like I did with the last one (Because the last guy was my first first, this one was virtually a stranger). I am always confused and worried about where we stand because of it, but you know what? It tends to work out. My fears are often in vain. If I just focus on having a good time with him, developing trust with him, flirting back, we grow closer. And I just wait for him to make the move, because I have learned that it seems to make him happy to be able to do that.
todreaminblue Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 so i have chilled with this guy on 3 separate occasions and each one was more fun and exciting than the next. last week he came over to my place and i thought something might happen because we were talking for hours and really enjoying ourselves but he left and nothing. he did mention that we should hang out next week. i really like him and after last week's hang out i am quite sure he likes me too. not 100%, but pretty sure. we were flirting and we text all the time. i think we are both shy but i really want him to make the move (because i am too chicken). what are your thoughts? has this happened to you before? empathizing with you here.....been through it before with a guy who liked me....he did make a first move and then let me make the decider which i did tipsy......which makes me a total coward but that was me then....now...im still a coward but not a drunk one....smilin....i would say let it happen naturally.If you really want him to make the move ....then go with what you feel, dont push yourself to do something that doesn't come naturally do what you feel and if it is meant to be it will be....i wish you loads of hope that it turns out right for you.....i empathise and your chicken status is appreciated because now i am not the only one hahaha ....doing the dougie.........lol.......good luck..hope it works out...deb
Author nowwhatnow Posted October 7, 2012 Author Posted October 7, 2012 wow what mixed reviews. ive been texting him a lot more and saying that i was thinking of him. i guess im just thinking that by now he has to know...so maybe he will do something when we get together next?
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