robaday Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 I met a girl last night for second time, shes a friend of a friend. I really liked her the first time, but had to leave so couldnt talk for long. Last night we spoke all night pretty much, and she seemed really interested. Shes attractive, intelligent, and theres instant chemistry - ya know where it just comes easily and neither person is trying to impress the other? I really like her, got her number and am taking her out next week. But I just came out of a bad breakup. While I dont want my ex back and I think I was on the way out anyway......Im not fully healed- i.e. not feeling 100% yet. But......this girl is really promising and Id be a fool not to pursue it. So I guess what Im wondering is.....just go for it? or tell her really early on that Im still struggling with a breakup? For all I know this girl might not want a relationship anyway so I dont wanna come off as patronising or arrogant!
ja123 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 It's good that you recognize that you're not fully healed. And that takes time. I expect this girl might end up being your rebound affair. Are you OK with that?
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