dannykeyz831 Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 So last week my ex gf contacted me several times and was texting me like crazy saying how she missed me and needed to talk to me really bad. At first I was like whatever and kind of blew her off. She was even crying at one point saying how I didn't care about her anymore and was not the same guy anymore. I kind of just shrugged it off and ignored her for a couple of days. Then I just had this urge to call her up because even though I was till angry at her, I cared about her so much and I ended telling her a bunch of stuff like "I miss you", "I wanna us to be together", "I know I can make you happy", etc but the problem is that she has a bf. Funny thing though is that she doesn't seem to really like him much as she was pretty much poking fun at him sayin how he's too nerdy, and too feminine at times. I was even poking fun at him and she didn't seem to mind lol. However, were 3 hours apart and seeing as she doesn't like to be alone, I'm sure she will stay with that guy regardless if she doesn't really like him much or not. That made me angry and the last few messages between us went like this Me: You've got a bf now. I hate it but I respect it. It's hard talking to you knowing that so maybe we shouldn't talk anymore. I was hoping you would wanna work on having something special with me but doesn't seem like you are up to it, but at the same time I don't wanna ruin your relationship Me: I really want to be with you. I don't want you to disappear from my life again Liz. I know I can make you happy. I probably sound dumb right now but I don't know what else to say. Her: It's gonna be really hard letting you go but I will respect your decision Her: Daniel, I don't want you to disappear from my life either. Damn, this is soo hard. And you don't sound dumb at all because it's coming from your heart. Me: Farewell And that's it! Haven't heard anything from her since that farewell message which was late wednesday afternoon. I'm just sad that she didn't try harder. I would have thought she would have at least tried to call me up or something but I get nothing. Now I feel like a moron. Not only that, but I'm hurt once again. She just confuses the heck out of me. I hate it!
Coyoteloco Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 OK man i dont know your whole story but you have to forget about this girl. If she haves a boyfriend and talks to you like that u cant trust her. I wouldnt put myself as a second option if my ex gets a new boyfriend i would never take her back! girls are confusing as fuc.k and that makes me a lil angry and frustrated :/ 1
KatZee Posted October 6, 2012 Posted October 6, 2012 Well at least you know you've said everything you could say, and you tried your hardest until the end. There was nothing more you personally could do. It was all up to her. I'm not sure why she confuses you. She's in a relationship with someone else. Take away everything she's said to you and just watch the actions. She's not fighting for you, she's dating someone else. 1
Author dannykeyz831 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 OK man i dont know your whole story but you have to forget about this girl. If she haves a boyfriend and talks to you like that u cant trust her. I wouldnt put myself as a second option if my ex gets a new boyfriend i would never take her back! girls are confusing as fuc.k and that makes me a lil angry and frustrated :/ I get what you're saying but its just tough sometimes knowing this girl was a big part of my life and forgetting about her just like that is no easy task.
Author dannykeyz831 Posted October 6, 2012 Author Posted October 6, 2012 Well at least you know you've said everything you could say, and you tried your hardest until the end. There was nothing more you personally could do. It was all up to her. I'm not sure why she confuses you. She's in a relationship with someone else. Take away everything she's said to you and just watch the actions. She's not fighting for you, she's dating someone else. I guess my stubbornness doesn't see all that. You're right in that her actions are no where to be found. I guess I should stop assuming things only because she calls me up. I haven't contacted her and I'm gonna keep it that way. It will be interesting to see what happens when she comes to visit her family at the end of this month. I know she will want to see me to at least say hi. Hope I'm out of town when that happens.
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