sgtmoody Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 I missed my GF's call yesterday when she called me at lunch cause I dont get great reception in my office building at work. She went out with friends last night and crashed at her friends house. I called her this morning and she texted me right back and said she would call be back in a sec but never did. I assume she was busy getting ready for work or something. She is usually busy at work so she doesnt always have time to call during the day. I'm sure nothing is wrong but that still doesnt stop me from worrying since I havent really talked to her in over 24 hours which is unusual for us. We normally talk 2 or 3 times a day unless we are busy. What are some of the ways you get by till you hear from your SO again? I know its hard since it long distance all you really have is phone or internet to talk. I know people say stay busy but some times you cant. Today is really slow at work so its hard to stay busy and keep my mind off it. I know nothing is wrong but I still worry. I also dont want to text her since I dont want to seem like I'm worrying or being needy. Thanks
january2011 Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Keep myself busy but allow my eyes to stray towards his name on my Skype contacts list, willing/daring him to call. While slowly winding myself up with paranoia and insecurity. I then give him the third-degree when he eventually does call and request that he breaks down into detail his every movement since we last spoke. Including everything he said, who he talked to and what they said. No, really, I do. 1
HeavenOrHell Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 I make sure I am busy and have a life, so my life doesn't revolve around when I next talk to him, many couples in LDR's won't get to talk in the daytime because of work etc. A day not talking here and there isn't a problem, having said that; me and my partner talk every day unless one of us is out, and then we'll let each other know we're going to be out and will call if it's not too late when we get back. If we miss a day now and again I don't feel I have to 'get by' until we talk again, I have stuff to do, and friends to see/talk to as well as talking to him. Maybe you need a more interesting job if you're at work bored enough to worry about why she's not called Even LDR's can feel suffocating at times, most r/ships need breathing space at times, let her call you when she's able to and try to stop obsessing about it. I missed my GF's call yesterday when she called me at lunch cause I dont get great reception in my office building at work. She went out with friends last night and crashed at her friends house. I called her this morning and she texted me right back and said she would call be back in a sec but never did. I assume she was busy getting ready for work or something. She is usually busy at work so she doesnt always have time to call during the day. I'm sure nothing is wrong but that still doesnt stop me from worrying since I havent really talked to her in over 24 hours which is unusual for us. We normally talk 2 or 3 times a day unless we are busy. What are some of the ways you get by till you hear from your SO again? I know its hard since it long distance all you really have is phone or internet to talk. I know people say stay busy but some times you cant. Today is really slow at work so its hard to stay busy and keep my mind off it. I know nothing is wrong but I still worry. I also dont want to text her since I dont want to seem like I'm worrying or being needy. Thanks
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