secondname Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Been seeing this girl for 3 months. Shes a bar tender. Works late and dont spend much time together.Tonight i was out with some friends and they told me "your girl is sleeping with with one of the waiters where she works" I immeditaly called her and said "who else you been sleeping with since we met" she replied "No one why" I told her what i heard and she replied "i swear i have not. who told u this rumor" I told her not to worry about it, it was her good friends" . she didnt get totally upset. she was more upset about who started the rumor I ended the phone call with "i believe the rumors and not you, im sorry " She ended with "this is bull ****, if you want to belive them go ahead but let me know who said it" Its been 3 hours now and she hasnt texted or called me back My ex wife of 7 years cheated on me, so i do have trust issues
Author secondname Posted October 5, 2012 Author Posted October 5, 2012 with her response, is she guilty, or to hard to judge ?
ThatJustHappened Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 You told her you didn't believe her. Why should she contact you? Incidentally..you behaved like a complete @sshole. I hope she meets someone who doesn't treat her that poorly. 2
2sunny Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Are you even divorced yet? And just a few days ago you started a thread asking how to break up...? Seems you found your way to do just that. Don't date anyone until you get help for your trust issues. 3
Sporty Girl Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Usually if somebody told you that the person you are with is cheating, it is true, and not just a rumor. Especially if you said they were her good friends. She problaby didn't call you back, because she is, and she is going to move on to that guy. I seen men and women that work together flirt with each other. It happens, because they are spending hours wit each other. If she really cared, and she was innocent she would contact you, to clear it up. Seems like she is in a love triangle. 1
gamman Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 Yeah.... I probably wouldn't worry about it any more as this relationship is now destroyed. F.Y.I. -- Think about handling situations like this differently in the future. Good luck.
MonsterMash Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 If she does contact you, it won't be until after she figures out who told what and can do damage control. 2
Darren Steez Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 so you're friends told you she was cheating, and you without any evidence just went ahead and blasted her I agree with other poster, next time handle things differently, you were insecure to begin with, she works late blah blah, you were waiting to flame her anyway, so this relationship or any relationship from this point forth will be doomed unless you deal with your own issues.
Charlie Harper Posted October 7, 2012 Posted October 7, 2012 You free booze and happy hours are gone...down the drain.
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