frederickkk Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 so after nearly two months of trying to change this girls mind, messing me around, i react to hearing the news, texting, phoning, she had a friend from her 6 week holiday stay over...i was then told not to contact her or risk police. put the phone in a pint, left town for a week. day 4 "have you seen him recently" day 5 i email her day 7 i go back home. go to pub. she goes to pub her parents "tell her not to go" we end up doing everything, then its her telling me no contact. i felt used. she told me not to tell anyone. i end up doing so, as i was gutted. day she goes off to uni, tells me she will be in contact in 6 months, 9 months, not before May? 4 days of her out of town, i get on a train to suss out whether i want to continue uni and try set up a meet. no meet. then offer to meet her at a hangout of hers. text from parents again. text her every day, 4 days, like a desperate idiot. day 5, she comes up to me out of nowhere in the uni area. starts talking, i guide her to night college, kiss outside, then go for a drink after, but as friends. im then friendzoned at a later club. doesnt want me there despite i buy her drinks. next day texting, no response. last day in the town, i ask her to come for coffee, no reply. i then go to her college, wait outside to talk, confront her like a f**** idiot, ask her straight out "relationship or nothing" she says "nothing" i tell her we can never be friends, she doesnt like that / look happy to hear it / close to crying. she then asks why i had told friend about the "doing everything" told her i felt used. so, i spooked her at her college, because i was an impatient soab, and as a result, she called the bloody police, and had a visit, cnt contact her again....if she feels i am harassing her she will go to police again.... SO, how long should i go NC? 2 weeks or a month? not losing this one. cheers
Hawaii50 Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 What does her hair-doll tell you to do? yeah, see that, you're coming off slightly crazy.
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