Jungar Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I have been with my bf for more than six years. He has 3 children and has been married. I am living in his house!!! I had apartements while with him and now I moved back. Big mistake I think....It's his house, and being not married how secure I am??? If something were to happen to him in the long run the house goes to his kids!!!....and me??? out in the street??? He and his ex wife have a good relationship...she moved on with her boyfriend and they are very happy together...fine ,,,,but she still does his accounts and I hate that. We are not getting married, nor will be having kids....so what I am I am doing to secure myself in this????...I go to bed and i fall asleep and he comes in the room and opens the tv and wakes me up late at night so there is no compromising with that??? And he watches it till late until he falls asleep. I am not confortable living in his space, ....is it important to be secure in a relationship??? if it's not our house together than how I am I protected???
yongyong Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 First of all, you didn't put a dime into the house. why do you think you deserve that? You are saying you guys should be married so if you guys break up in the future, you can claim half of that right?
Author Jungar Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Deserve to have my stability....i dont want his house. Nor do I want to get married...it"s about living in some elses house. Do you think that is safe for someone.
yongyong Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I am sure most people are humane enough to give you some time to find a new place after you guys break up. If you want to be absolutely protected, pay him a rent and sign a contract. But I can tell you don't want to pay him but want to be safe at the same time -> LOL 1
Author Jungar Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 LOL yes you are right...do not want to pay him...if I pay I want my space and be able to do what I want right???....would you feel right about having to live in your bf or gf"s house?... And if he wants me out trust me he wants me out. And I have 3 dogs....not easy to find an apt.....I feel people need to own together. Imagine getting kicked out at 70 years old after all this time living together...
Recommended Posts