SheLeftMe Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I have a softball game tonight. The thing is my ex fiance is also on the team (we joined the team when we were together with a bunch of mutual friends). Im definitely going because it's one of the things that actually brings me enjoyment these days. We havent seen eachother in exactly 3 weeks. Any suggestions on how to act around her? Today has been one of those good days and i dont want to ruin it by making myself look foolish and reinforce her decision to break up with me after a 6 year engagement. Any thoughts would be very appreciated!
CptSaveAho Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Join a new league... otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
gullibleme Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Wow...thats a tough one..I avoid my ex...even missed out on my class reunion just so I didn't have to see him because I knew I couldn't see him...but if you can handle it I would say just be yourself and show her your in good spirits... good luck and let us know how it went...
Chi townD Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Advice? sure! Join a mens soccer league!!!! Look, you're gonna be knocked back a few pegs after tonight and REALLY down to rock bottom if she brings a other dude with her. Trust me, girls don't take into account that people might be hurt by their actions. She could very well think that you HAVE to be over her because SHE'S over you!!! Therefore, her actions can't possibly hurt you now! Dude, you need to find another outlet.
Author SheLeftMe Posted October 5, 2012 Author Posted October 5, 2012 Well it didnt go all that bad...if i had to put a word on the situation, it would be "awkward". We didnt even didnt even speak for the first hour, but i kept noticing her glancing over at me. Every time i would look at her i would catch her looking at me and she would turn real fast, but i probably shouldn't think too much into that. Later in the night she kept saying she was cold, so i offered her my sweatshirt and she declined with a smile. I just spent the entire time acting like my myself, joking with friends and having a good time She was also checking her phone constantly, which leads me to believe shes already found a new guy. Did i do too much by offering my sweatshirt? Thoughts?
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