BBB08 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 I just have a question. Me and my ex went on a break, I initiated it. She was going through tough time at school. She spent to much time on me and now she blamed me for having a big work load and starting being distant. I said we should go on a break after i couldnt take anymore attitude. The whole time i tried talking to her, she pretended that i was just a nobody. Like we had nothing. I saw her after a month and she'd flirt, then her friend would say something and she'd be mean again. She pretended she was on her cell phone the whole day "like she just got extra popular over that month" Anyways during this time i tried talking to her, to see when we can hang out. She'd just say i dont know when i work, I'm busy, all that crap. So then i just said screw it and stopped talking to her. 3 weeks later. She sends me a website on the computer and says "here's something i'd think you'd like" just 2 days ago she says "hi" and asks " is there anything new with you" Why do girls completely go from being total bitches and try to make you feel bad, to wondering what's new with me a couple of weeks later. She knows she had a great guy in me. The reason we broke up, she was afraid of falling in love" It hurt me but i started moving on. Why do they like you more when you dont talk to them???
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 Me and my ex went on a break, I initiated it. She was going through tough time at school. She spent to much time on me and now she blamed me for having a big work load and starting being distant. I said we should go on a break after i couldnt take anymore attitude. The reason we broke up, she was afraid of falling in love" It hurt me but i started moving on. Why do they like you more when you dont talk to them??? Okay - which reason was it? Did you initiate it because she was blaming you for being unable to juggle her work and a relationship or did you break up because she was afraid of falling in love? Sounds like you both are confused..I'm confused.
Author BBB08 Posted July 27, 2004 Author Posted July 27, 2004 Well, that's the messed up part. She was acting weird and just distant, till i got mad after she ditched me one day with out a call or anything. So i said this is getting screwed and wanted a break for her to get her crap together. She said let me just finish school. We talked during this break, nothing about us just light. Then i see her after a month, and she just acts like she's so cool, you know too cool, with her friend. So i drive her home and say what's the deal. I need some closure about our situation. I was expecting her to say she doesnt want t a BF cuz she's 19 i'm 23. And that would of been cool , but then she says let's take it a day at a time. So i'm like OK. She tells me to call her the next day for her graduation, but i didnt cuz i've been doing all the calling with her telling me she's busy and can't talk long. I'd talk to her on computer and she acted like she was to busy for me. The thing that kind of pissed me off and stopped talking to her was. I was talking to her on computer, and i called her cell to talk in person and she didnt answer. I said i just called you and she says " i dont have my cell on me" i say you want me to call your house she goes "i'm not at home" and then she says im going to take a nap bye . That's when i said screw it, no more chasing. And now she's asking " if there's anything new with me" Cuz b4 after she'd say hi, i'd start talking to her. Not this time. I just said not to much, things are ok, and that i had to go.
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