Were You Disappointed By Reality?

[SensitiveTJ]

I don't really understand the premise of this thread. There's no difference between "porn girls" and "real girls." Except that the former are willing to prostitute themselves on camera. If a man is despairing of banging ugly chicks he should improve himself to get better women, not turn to porn for fulfillment.

[verhrzn]

I don't really understand the premise of this thread. There's no difference between "porn girls" and "real girls." Except that the former are willing to prostitute themselves on camera. If a man is despairing of banging ugly chicks he should improve himself to get better women, not turn to porn for fulfillment.

 

The idea is that most women do not look like "fantasy" women. Most women have fatty pockets, they don't have perfect skin, they have small saggy breasts or a flat butt or cellulite, etc.

 

"Fantasy" girls are real, but also rare. So, are guys disappointed in their first encounter with a real woman in which she appears as less than perfect? (If she was perfect all ready then that is besides the point.)

[Biscous]

Real girls have cellulite, but there are real girls out there with bubble butts and racks on racks on racks if that's what you're wondering. I don't see a problem with setting standards.

[SensitiveTJ]

The idea is that most women do not look like "fantasy" women. Most women have fatty pockets, they don't have perfect skin, they have small saggy breasts or a flat butt or cellulite, etc.

 

"Fantasy" girls are real, but also rare. So, are guys disappointed in their first encounter with a real woman in which she appears as less than perfect? (If she was perfect all ready then that is besides the point.)

 

 

 

I think you underestimate the number of "flawless" women out there. Beautiful girls are everywhere around me, and I don't even live in a big city or anything. So, to answer your thread title, I have never been dissappointed by my options as far as attractive women go.

[verhrzn]

... Well, all right, good to know that men are sleeping with an endless supply of beautiful women, with amazing qualities that rival porn stars.

[Mme. Chaucer]

No, I just find it interesting how so far the responses have been," Oh we know average women don't look like that.... they look BETTER than porn stars, and I always get with really hot women anyway!"

 

No, they haven't. Unless you are pretending to take anything posted by yongyong seriously, and we all know that even in your never ending quest to "prove" that

 

1) All men suck, and

 

2) No one on Earth has ever existed who is as completely ugly and undesirable as you are,

 

you won't really pay any attention to that schmuck. Because you have a brain.

 

People who aren't going along with your program of trying to "prove" that

 

1) All men suck, and

 

2) No one on Earth has ever existed who is as completely ugly and undesirable as you are

 

are instructed to "stay out of your threads"?

 

Right.

 

What the guys have posted here is true. Most people really don't objectify other people; just some do. The average guy who is not a PUA-bot is not judging and comparing a woman who he is about to have sex with with pictures on the Internet. He is pretty excited and in the moment.

 

Why ask questions if you throw back every answer in the face of the person who answers you?

 

Why not just write a blog?

[SmileFace]

... Well, all right, good to know that men are sleeping with an endless supply of beautiful women, with amazing qualities that rival porn stars.

I love that that is what you got out of the responses.

 

Guy : "I love you V"

 

Verhrzn : " That is only because you can't do any better"

 

Can't win

[verhrzn]

No, they haven't. Unless you are pretending to take anything posted by yongyong seriously, and we all know that even in your never ending quest to "prove" that

 

1) All men suck, and

 

2) No one on Earth has ever existed who is as completely ugly and undesirable as you are,

 

you won't really pay any attention to that schmuck. Because you have a brain.

 

People who aren't going along with your program of trying to "prove" that

 

1) All men suck, and

 

2) No one on Earth has ever existed who is as completely ugly and undesirable as you are

 

are instructed to "stay out of your threads"?

 

Right.

 

What the guys have posted here is true. Most people really don't objectify other people; just some do. The average guy who is not a PUA-bot is not judging and comparing a woman who he is about to have sex with with pictures on the Internet. He is pretty excited and in the moment.

 

Why ask questions if you throw back every answer in the face of the person who answers you?

 

Why not just write a blog?

 

How in the world am I trying to prove all men suck?? I didn't write the freaking article, and I just thought it was interesting that here was a guy saying he totally compared real women to online women, and wondering how prevalent it is. And even if I was suggesting that men are shallow (which they are certainly in no rush to argue), how does that equal them sucking?

 

BigQuestion said he got excited in the moment, but then he always sleeps with beautiful girls. And other posters were saying that they see tons of beautiful women, who look just like porn stars, all over, ergo they don't have to sleep with women who are "average." So, by repeating what was said in this thread I'm somehow "throwing" the answers back in people's faces??

 

And again, why are you and others of your ilk so very angry if/when I start these threads? Why does it bother you so much that you just have to come here and fill it with your snark??

[jobaba]

The first time I had a woman naked, I was pretty much so thrilled she could have had any body deformation short of a penis and I would have been OK with the situation.

[verhrzn]

I love that that is what you got out of the responses.

 

Guy : "I love you V"

 

Verhrzn : " That is only because you can't do any better"

 

Can't win

 

... Um, well, if a guy is only with me cause he can't do better? Are you saying I should be pleased when a guy dates me only out of desperation, when he's disappointed by my body? Would you be happy in that kind of relationship??

[SmileFace]

... Um, well, if a guy is only with me cause he can't do better? Are you saying I should be pleased when a guy dates me only out of desperation, when he's disappointed by my body? Would you be happy in that kind of relationship??

V I am saying whatever you think I am saying because you will twist it that way anyway.

[SmileFace]

Yeah.. all a woman has to do for most guy is NOT be clinically obese. Simple, eh?

I did that and I am still single. I should start bitching about that maybe?

[TheBigQuestion]

 

BigQuestion said he got excited in the moment, but then he always sleeps with beautiful girls.

 

Wrong. Some of them weren't great looking. I was just more than a little tipsy. Re-read my prior posts before putting words in my mouth, kthnx.

[SensitiveTJ]

How in the world am I trying to prove all men suck?? I didn't write the freaking article, and I just thought it was interesting that here was a guy saying he totally compared real women to online women, and wondering how prevalent it is. And even if I was suggesting that men are shallow (which they are certainly in no rush to argue), how does that equal them sucking?

 

BigQuestion said he got excited in the moment, but then he always sleeps with beautiful girls. And other posters were saying that they see tons of beautiful women, who look just like porn stars, all over, ergo they don't have to sleep with women who are "average." So, by repeating what was said in this thread I'm somehow "throwing" the answers back in people's faces??

 

And again, why are you and others of your ilk so very angry if/when I start these threads? Why does it bother you so much that you just have to come here and fill it with your snark??

 

 

It's not really a secret that men would prefer to sleep with the best-looking women rather than the least. But that's something you could absolutely say about women as well. So I'm not sure what point you're driving at here. Back to the original article...well, to be honest if the author is comparing real, live naked women to online pics/photos, then he has a psychological problem. For which he should seek professional help.

[verhrzn]

V I am saying whatever you think I am saying because you will twist it that way anyway.

 

How bout actually just responding to my post? This didn't have to be yet another "beat up on V" thread...

[verhrzn]

Wrong. Some of them weren't great looking. I was just more than a little tipsy. Re-read my prior posts before putting words in my mouth, kthnx.

 

Oh, I'm so sorry. "When I was sober, all of them were beautiful! When I was drunk, I just didn't notice they weren't because I was drunk." That changes my initial statement exactly how?

[SmileFace]

How bout actually just responding to my post? This didn't have to be yet another "beat up on V" thread...

Fair enough

 

Hope you find your answer

[Negative Nancy]

I love that that is what you got out of the responses.

 

Guy : "I love you V"

 

Verhrzn : " That is only because you can't do any better"

 

My line of thinking too.

 

Why is it surprising, though? All men define women's worth by their bodies and looks and would like to be with the hottest women (women, not woman) they can get, so that way of thinking isn't too far off AT ALL.

[TheBigQuestion]

How bout actually just responding to my post? This didn't have to be yet another "beat up on V" thread...

 

You've already stated a blanket dismissal of all the responses the men in this thread have provided for you.

[verhrzn]

You've already stated a blanket dismissal of all the responses the men in this thread have provided for you.

 

How is it a dismissal? Please lay out exactly where my statements, and the statements made by men in this thread, differ.

[fortyninethousand322]

My line of thinking too.

 

Why is it surprising, though? All men define women's worth by their bodies and looks and would like to be with the hottest women (women, not woman) they can get, so that way of thinking isn't too far off AT ALL.

 

Agree 100%. Refreshing opinions being expressed in this thread.

[mesmerized]

90+ percent of women arent flawless. If men are only sleeping with flawless women here then 90 percent of men are sleeping with 10 precent of women. Dont you all just love my LS logic?

 

V, these men are full of crap. There is no way they have only slept with porn star looking women, not the type that is in our head anyway.

[SensitiveTJ]

90+ percent of women arent flawless. If men are only sleeping with flawless women here then 90 percent of men are sleeping with 10 precent of women. Dont you all just love my LS logic?

 

V, these men are full of crap. There is no way they have only slept with porn star looking women, not the type that is in our head anyway.

 

 

What does a "porn-star looking" woman appear like? I'm confused by the intrusion of pornography in this threat. I and other men slept with women we are attracted to. None of us compared them to some prostitute on the Internet, lol. Come on, haha.

[Mme. Chaucer]

My line of thinking too.

 

Why is it surprising, though? All men define women's worth by their bodies and looks and would like to be with the hottest women (women, not woman) they can get, so that way of thinking isn't too far off AT ALL.

 

But … that's not really true. SOME men do that. Evidently, the men you and v both choose. Not ALL men.

 

I am SO SICK of those of you (there are only about 5 women, including you & v, and about 500 men) who feel perfectly okay about denigrating an entire gender full of our fellow human beings based upon your own … sickness (sorry, but that's the only way I can express it).

 

If you all have bad experiences with the opposite sex, NO WONDER. I can only imagine the walk in the park it must be to date you, v, and your male counterparts here like greznog, doc gobbles, woggle, somedude, leasureworld dude, etc. The horror.

[TheBigQuestion]

90+ percent of women arent flawless. If men are only sleeping with flawless women here then 90 percent of men are sleeping with 10 precent of women. Dont you all just love my LS logic?

 

V, these men are full of crap. There is no way they have only slept with porn star looking women, not the type that is in our head anyway.

 

Except no guy here, not one, has said that they have ONLY slept with "porn star looking women." What we HAVE said is that we can easily spot many women who could pass for porn stars on a daily basis. Some of us have also said that we have been with women that we found quite physically attractive, which doesn't necessarily mean they were all "porn star looking" either (as if all porn stars are THAT good looking in the first place, but that's a different story altogether). The only place in the world where the responders to this thread have been exclusively banging Tori Black clones since high school is in V's head.