ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I messed up VERY bad. She left me for another guy and with this being my FIRST BIG break up and my FIRST heartbreak, I made all the mistakes after that. I begged her to be with me. Pleaded her to not give up on us. I only did this once though. Not a WHOLE week or month like other people have done. There was only one day where I had a "Panic beg and plead her attack" and I only called liked twice along with 3 text messages which were ignored anyway. I Talk to her parents. Told her I talked to her parents. Sent her a letter in the mail with flowers telling her I will always be here for her. Told her that the new guy she left me for is an ******* from what her mom says. I even Agreed to be friends with her after ALL this. I regret doing all these things because it made me look stupid and weak. So now, she will think I will ALWAYS want her. I feel like I sent her off to the other guy GUILT-FREE like I'm okay with everything. How can I bring the guilt she should be feeling back and make it across that I DON'T want her back and that I HATE HER! I feel like messaging her and telling her that what she did was wrong in so many ways and I hate her and that she has put me through so much pain and I never want to see, hear, or think about her again which is impossible right now obviously. What can I do to make her feel guilty and let her know that I hate this girl!?
Mike_d Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 jesus, another thread??!? what didn't you get out of the previous ones that you've started? What can I do to make her feel guilty and let her know that I hate this girl! grow up. you don't manipulate people into liking you 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 jesus, another thread??!? what didn't you get out of the previous ones that you've started? lol. I'm going crazy. I don't know what to do. :/
Mike_d Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 don't do anything. sit in place. do not take action. you've been fired. you'll going to need to deal with the pain that is coming, you can't fix this, you can't manipulate it - this is done, finito. consider looking into professional help to give you some tools to help you through the next few months so that you can learn how to support yourself 1
TaraMaiden Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Quit posting, if it's not productive or getting through to you - which it patently isn't. You HAVE to take your mind off this. Join a gym, buy a dog, do overtime at work, go out with your buddies, go for a run - anything. But quit obsessing.... After a while, people here will ignore you - and that would be sad. 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Quit posting, if it's not productive or getting through to you - which it patently isn't. You HAVE to take your mind off this. Join a gym, buy a dog, do overtime at work, go out with your buddies, go for a run - anything. But quit obsessing.... After a while, people here will ignore you - and that would be sad. I hear ya. How do you delete threads? lol.
naomii Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 All you can do is go on with your life. Do not contact her. Shes young, 16 i think you said? This relationship shes in now will most likely end. By then you can be moved on and if she does try to reach out to you, completely ignore her and keep moving on. Dont ever take her back. That will make you feel good.
Sameold Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 give the guy a break...this forum is for reaching out when you are finding things tough. My advice would be as follows. Whatever you do now will be irrelevant to an extent. However I understand that you want her to feel guilty. If genuinely you have realised that you have made a mistake in offering friendship etc then it is fair for you to take that away by blocking her on fb and perhaps even messaging her to say that you have realised she treated you very badly and as a result you want nothing to do with her. Then you block her on fb and be done. Don't expect a reply, you want get one but if you then are strong and never ever ever contact her again then it will show you meant what you said. However I feel as though you arn't able to do this as you keep her in reaching distance on your fb. Go big or go home, in love, in BUs. Don't let yourself stand in any grey area.
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