Jingle14 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I read so many other posts - and also talk to friends who have been through a split - and see so often that people know their ex's, who have dumped them, admit they still love the dumpee and care for them, because I know I am nothing to mine. He doesn't, nor ever will again, love me or care for me at all. For all we went through - and we really did, you'd have thought he would have walked over broken glass to make 'us' work after getting together against all the odds - it breaks my heart even more to know I am nothing to him at all. I'm not knocking people who have the comfort of knowing their ex does still care, I just feel so rejected to know I might as well never have existed as far as this man who I know did once love me - and who shared magical, spiritual experiences with me - is concerned. I'm not a bad, horrible person - I was massively kind and generous to him - but it does make me feel worthless to think he has erased me from his mind.
River Rain Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Mine basically erased me too. Mind you, he hid me from his "real" life so I was never even there to begin with, if that makes sense. It hurts still. But I decided to erase him too. I deleted all photos, emails sent/received, changed my cell number, filtered his email address and even deleted his coordinates. Holding on only hurts you, he doesn't care, or if he does, it doesn't matter because it's over now. I know it's hard, I'm going through it right now. We deserve more.
Author Jingle14 Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Mine basically erased me too. Mind you, he hid me from his "real" life so I was never even there to begin with, if that makes sense. It hurts still. But I decided to erase him too. I deleted all photos, emails sent/received, changed my cell number, filtered his email address and even deleted his coordinates. Holding on only hurts you, he doesn't care, or if he does, it doesn't matter because it's over now. I know it's hard, I'm going through it right now. We deserve more. You're right, we do, and nicely put. I dont want to delete photos though, but they are hidden well on my laptop where i never look.
kalaslsl Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Same thing happened to me with a girl so you're not alone. I'm not good at giving advice but sometimes knowing there's more people out there going through the same pain, helps. 1
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