groovygirl06jm Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 Junior and I had a great relationship, but I started having feelings for this guy Chris so I broke up with Junior to be with Chris, It turned out Chris was the biggest jerk and didn't really care for me. Junior and I went out for dinner last week and I told him my feelings for him were still strong and that I was sorry for breaking up with him and that I wanted him back. Well, he said he still likes me very much but he doesn't know if he can trust me after all I broke up with him saying that I wasn't ready for a commitment and the next week he found out I was going out with Chris. What can I do to prove Junior that I am for real now, that I really care for him and that he can trust me still? I don't regret going out with Chris because even though he was a jerk I learned a lot from our little relationship. I realized how much I liked Junior by being with Chris.... can that be possible?....I want my ex back!!! HELP CONFUSED GIRLFRIEND
dudesomewhere Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 you aren't interested in Junior...really, I'm being serious. You really like Chris and probably love him. Jerks rule! hehe...now I'm joking but only being an ass not joking about the situation. Seriously...keep going out with Chris and leave Junior alone. You'll see you really prefer the jerk. Junior is nice and safe...he's not what you want, just makes you comfortable. See, that should end your confusion. You left Junior for a reason, sometimes some women deny what that reason is, but it's what you want, just accept it.
thecake Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 kills me with his astute yet cynical and jaded advice. I like my men to be 90% nice and only 10% jerk...it's a good mix. Yes, groovygirl, I think a lot of people make this mistake...realize the grass isn't greener and want to go back to a good guy. I broke up with my ex-husband once to go out with another guy...dated him for a week and then went back to my ex. Of course, we eventually broke up but that's neither here nor there. Give yourself a break...at least you were honest with Junior and broke up with him before going out with Chris....you didn't cheat, so that's good. Try to be understanding with Junior...most people wouldn't want to set thmeselves up to be hurt again...at least not this soon.
dudesomewhere Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 I am always able to convince those who go out with me...who break up and choose the jerk and then want to come back to me...that they really don't want me but want the jerk but that the jerk is making it too much of a challenge...so they just give up and go back to what is easy...or what they think is easy. I just never go back because that's how I am. You can't take U-turns in life. People are not fashion to try out! hehe instead of retyping something in an edit I'll restate here...you can make u-turns in life...but not in romance
thecake Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 dude...in keeping with the fasion theme, you have to try on certain types of people to understand what will best fit you....that's what our 20's are for. A girl has to date a jerk or two to appreciate the nice guys.
jw32802 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 How long did you date chris for before you realized how much you wanted junior back??
Author groovygirl06jm Posted July 27, 2004 Author Posted July 27, 2004 Chris and I have been going out for a little over two months but for the past two weeks he's been in vaccation in Italy. And he hasn't called me once. He calls his best friend Julio and asks him to tell me little messages which in the begining I thought it was cute but now it really pisses me off that he doesn't call me. Last he asked Julio to tell me that he was very consufed about me and that he didn't know what was going to happen when he got back. Although we haven't really said it , it is pretty much over...
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