FXMARTIN Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Hey guys! I'm new to this forum and I need some advice. Recently, I told this girl that I like her. And, I told her but she was already talking to some other guy. But she said she did. Well, she isn't talking to him anymore. So she told me she did like me. I heard rumors about her having 3 other guys in mind. So, I asked her because I knew she'd tell me the truth. However, she got mad at me and said I didn't trust her. And, how it changed things. I felt so horrible. I later found out she had stopped talking to them but wasn't ready for a relationship. So, now we're better but I know she is still upset. Also, whats preventing her as well, is her friend liked me as well. And she said she didn't want to hurt her even though her friend did ditch me and went back with her ex. But this girl kept telling me maybe later on. What do I do? I really like her but she doesn't show affection to me at all. I understand we're not talking but it gets to me. I really like her. what do I do? Or say? I feel like I've messed up plenty. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks everyone!
january2011 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Move on. She's not ready to date or be in a relationship. She was also messing around with four other guys. And now she's not talking to you. It also sounds very messy and you all sound very young. I'd also like to suggest that since you are not dating or in a relationship, she doesn't really owe you any affection. However, giving you the cold-shoulder, being distant or avoiding you, is not a good sign. Next time you like a girl, make a date with her and develop the relationship. Don't just drop the "I like you" on a girl and just leave it at that. If she is juggling other guys at the same time, have a conversation about whether or not you are both looking for a serious relationship or you're both just after someone to hang out with.
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