lvixen Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 We've been seeing each other for about a month and he quickly introduced me to his parents (they are awesome) and even called me his girlfriend to them. However, he has told extended family that we're "dating" and I even saw something on his OKCupid (where I met him) profile, in one of the match questions, that pretty much says to girls he's asked out in the past, that he'll go out on a date with them until he is engaged, when then he won't. I thought we were in an exclusive relationship, but maybe he doesn't see it that way until the relationship becomes "serious"? Also, we have changed each other's Facebook status to "in a relationship". I'd hate to have to confront him about it, but if I do, what are some things I should ask/say? Thanks, not too experienced with all of this
JamesM Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 You will need to ask him and then call his bluff if he says that "We are just dating." You will need to also date. To me it appears that he is not serious yet if he considers dating others. It may be that he is not certain if you are the right one. Who knows...he should. If he can't be open and lies, then you know that he isn't the one. If he is honest and says he is still uncertain, then this is not a bad thing. Simply date others and don't wait until he makes up his mind. This may cause him to decide to be exclusive.
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