lovecash Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 So I just joined a new gym, and found out my ex also goes there. The gym is so close and really great, so I really dont want to change. I thought it would be a problem, but I notice when I'm working out and in the zone I don't even care that she is there and dont notice her. I am just making myself better and I even think I feel better that she is there and is missing out on what I have to offer. Do you think its ok to keep going to the same gym as her? I say F her and i'm not changing my life around because she dumped me.
Calico Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 If it's no problem and you handle it fine, you keep doing that. If it causes you discomfort or pain, you go to another gym. (Doing things for the benefit of an ex, like "... sees what she is missing out on ...", means you are not letting go and it can get you stuck. Do things for yourself, and yourself only.)
Author lovecash Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 I really dont think it will be a problem. Post breakup the best I feel all day is when I'm at the gym making myself better. She also looks HORRIBLE in gym clothes/sweaty so it helps me take her off the pedestal shes on in my mind. Also comparing her to other girls in the gym gives me much more hope that I can do better than her.
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