paperboy48 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 My son has a baseball game tomorrow night. My soon to be Ex-Wife has the kids tomrrow night. It also happens to be my 10th Wedding Anniversary. Divorce will be final in a matter of weeks. I was thinking about not going to the game, given what day it is...because it will be rather difficult for me to see my Wife. However, if I don't go (which I hardly ever miss a game)she will know I'm not there because of that reason. I don't know that I want to go her that benefit....
Chi townD Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Forget your STBXW. It isn't about you and her. You need to go to support and cheer for your son! Nothing more than that. His world got turned upside down and he needs to know that you still love him and that you are his biggest fan. Ignore the Ex as much as possible and support your kid!
JamesM Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Of course it will hurt, but this is for your son and not her. If you don't go, then you will still hurt and have the thoughts of your anniversary on your mind...and feel guilt and sadness for not being there with your son. If you do go, then you will feel the pain of a broken marriage on the day that should have been a happy anniversary...but you will have shown support for your son who is innocent in all of this. Go and do it for him. I think when it is all over you will feel better than if you had stayed home.
TaraMaiden Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Did you have an anniversary before you met her? No. You no longer have an anniversary after you've split from her. It's just another day. A day during which your son will play baseball and enjoy having his dad there to watch him..... 1
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