First love Gone Forever and i accept it but it hurts so much

[NeverKnewthispain]

Met back 3 years ago when i was 20 and it we had our ups and downs but it was the best time of my life. Then one day out of know where. I met someone else and they stayed over the night. it been hurting the past 5 days since those words came out during the day when im out its mostly gone but when i come home at night all i can think about is the memories we had and the day we first met i wish it would just go away i dont know how long it will take to go away

 

Only good thing that came out of this is that it was so much pain thati actaully cryed in front of my mom the first time and told her about my pain and how much pain i dealed with during the past even before my first girlfriend i usually kept to myself cuz i didnt want them to know i was hurting and that i wasnt happy

Edited October 4, 2012 by NeverKnewthispain

[Cl0udy]

I am in the same boat as you. I don't believe in love anymore. Just cry it out. Listen to music and journal your feelings.

 

 

[Calico]

"Forever" is a long time. Most of my past loves eventually re-entered my life, or at least would have liked to. But this was never before I was over them and there was potential for real friendship (not the kind of friendship where you are too emotionally invested). So, who knows, you may be friends again somewhere down the road. (But not now; don't wait for it.)

 

Crying is perfectly fine, and there is nothing un-manly about it. It's an awesome "tool" to release stress and grief. Don't worry about it. You'll ride the emotional rollercoaster for a while and it may get worse before it gets better, but do know that it eventually does get better, as long as you work on getting better.

 

You'll love again. Promise.

[Coyoteloco]

Hey man, i also lost my first love, we were together 6 years, im 21 right now. And it hurst alot, the first week after the break up was hell for me. It was such a shock that i didnt even know where i was standing. After u initiate no contact you start feeling better, and now 2 months after the break up my mind u so much peaceful i still think of her. When i wake up i cant stop thinking of her and all that has happened. It makes me very sad but i guess things will get better someday. What i did was join a gym started a new sport, do stuff with my friends and focus on my studies, that helps alot. We are all going through the same thing, i guess its a long process.