ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Ex girlfriend left me for another guy alittle over a month ago. We were together for 9 months. DEEPLY in love. Planned our futures together. Been in no contact for 30+ days and I haven't heard anything from her. No breadcrumbs. Nothing. She must be really happy without me huh? And with him. What is it he has that I don't? :/. How do you go 9 months loving someone and telling them everyday and crying because your scared you would lose them but then dump them for just another guy? I must have meant nothing to her. Right? I got used for 9 months. Played. Ugh. It's sad my first true love would put me through this. Help.
Balzac Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Resist thinking that any of this is about a deficit in you. See her actions as unhealthy. She surely would have communicated with in a mature approach had she been mature. Sorry you're miserable but it's not a deficit in you.
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 Resist thinking that any of this is about a deficit in you. See her actions as unhealthy. She surely would have communicated with in a mature approach had she been mature. Sorry you're miserable but it's not a deficit in you. Your right. She will do the same to him she did to me. Immature B****! Thank you.
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 (edited) How old are you guys? You're right, history tends to repeat itself, women who leave one man for another tend to repeat the same behavior. Don't take that as "she'll leave him for me", take it as "thanks that I got my bad experience with her out of the way". Trust me the next guy won't have it better than you. Everyone's heard the saying "you can't turn a who**** into a housewife", that saying has lasted the test of time for a reason. Edited October 4, 2012 by NavyAirTraffic 2
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 How old are you guys? You're right, history tends to repeat itself, women who leave one man for another tend to repeat the same behavior. Don't take that as "she'll leave him for me", take it as "thanks that I got my bad experience with her out of the way". Trust me the next guy won't have it better than you. Everyone's heard the saying "you can't turn a who**** into a housewife", that saying has lasted the test of time for a reason. She is 16 turning 17 in like 20 days and I am 19. I KNOW she will leave him for "her next" attraction. Sad he doesn't realize that, he KNOWS she left me for him but hey, he just wants a piece. And she want to give it to him lol. Wow. I messed up. Agreeing to be her boyfriend was a HUGE mistake.
naomii Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 there's your answer. she's 16 years old. she's young, immature and stupid! shes not even a woman yet, shes still just a kid! 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 there's your answer. she's 16 years old. she's young, immature and stupid! shes not even a woman yet, shes still just a kid! I should have known! I should have never fell so deep in love with her being this young. I'm retarded lol. Brought all this pain upon myself! This sucks. 1
suladas Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I'm sorry but a 16 and 19 year old planning a future together? Wow. At that age, I think most people just want casual relationships and nothing to serious. Like said above she's just a child.
todreaminblue Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Ex girlfriend left me for another guy alittle over a month ago. We were together for 9 months. DEEPLY in love. Planned our futures together. Been in no contact for 30+ days and I haven't heard anything from her. No breadcrumbs. Nothing. She must be really happy without me huh? And with him. What is it he has that I don't? :/. How do you go 9 months loving someone and telling them everyday and crying because your scared you would lose them but then dump them for just another guy? I must have meant nothing to her. Right? I got used for 9 months. Played. Ugh. It's sad my first true love would put me through this. Help. i agree with the poster below it isnt very mature is she young? it isn't right to do what she has done you deserve to at least know the truth.I know after years and years of a relationship things get to become routine but at nine months that is barely out of the honeymoon period......you are not to blame.How do you know she is with someone else if there has been no contact?..just read she is 16 way too young to think about a future together she is barely budding...deb
oracle Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Getting involved with anyone 20 and under will just cost you are year or two of your life. On the other hand my ex and I who were both 19 did 14years together. So never say never.
kalaslsl Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 In a way is better that this happened to you at such a young age, you will be more experienced for next time and you'll know to recognize the warning sings much easier.
Calico Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 In a way is better that this happened to you at such a young age, you will be more experienced for next time and you'll know to recognize the warning sings much easier. Not really! There are only two things that change with age: a) You learn that you can and will love more than once in your life (but you'll still think that the most recent partner was the best ever and that you cannot ever find someone like him or her again, and you'll completely ignore any experience-based evidence to the contrary). b) You have more money to waste on gifts and flowers when you try to get back an ex who dumped you.
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