TG1 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 Lately with my girlfriend and myself, I have turned on the charm quite a lot but I don't really know if it's going anywhere, so what should I do to step up my efforts in turning on the charm even more without coming off as being desperate since I have been acting nice towards her and she even says that she misses me too but I don't want to push her or pressure her into something that she is not ready for or won't be ready for, and she wants me to come over but I don't know if I should because I feel like I should protect myself from her because I am scared of hurting her, I guess since I have hurt her quite a lot in the past but she has also hurt me a lot in the past as well, so hence the reason I have turned on the charm
kae Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 if she knows you then she knows your efforts. Stop. dont do it anymore.. charm is supposed come and go.. and be natural. dont go to her house. good call. keep things in public until your super sure she feels she really likes you. dont be too affectionate either.. you want a clear picture. let her put some effort in charming you.. you too need to be won over..dont forget your worth! give a little ..pull back.. seems right.
Author TG1 Posted October 5, 2012 Author Posted October 5, 2012 if she knows you then she knows your efforts. Stop. dont do it anymore.. charm is supposed come and go.. and be natural. dont go to her house. good call. keep things in public until your super sure she feels she really likes you. dont be too affectionate either.. you want a clear picture. let her put some effort in charming you.. you too need to be won over..dont forget your worth! give a little ..pull back.. seems right. Thank you for your advice, it definitely helps
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