thr1986 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 I traveled to a different city back in march and had an amazing connection with a girl and we have been traveling back and forth to visit each other since. She has made it incredibly clear that she likes me, in fact told me That she loves me and we have very lightly spoken about her moving here. My question is this. When we first met eachother there was lots of banter between her and another guy on her Facebook page and then it completely stopped as her and I talked more and more. However it continues to reappear and recently has commented on some of her posts, most recently with a complement to her taste. Is it wrong of me to just flat out ask her what her relations to him are? We have never talked about him nor have I met him. She has outwardly worked into conversation that she has not slept with anyone since she met me. Should I ask her or not? It's not like she will admit it if it's true I guess
january2011 Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 You've mentioned that she loves you and you've both talked about her relocating to be with you. However, have you mutually agreed that this is a monogamous relationship and that neither of you are considering or dating other people? Based on what you've posted, asking her flat out about the nature of her relationship with him is going to make you come across as paranoid and overly suspicious. In my opinion, you don't have any evidence that anything is going on between the two of them. She hasn't crossed any boundaries with him, as far as I can tell. My advice is to let this go for now until you have more evidence that something untoward is going on. 1
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