The other women Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 This is a really complicated issue and i cant type everything but we were engadged to be married this year but in january I found out hed been texting his ex saying he wanted to move back with her and still loved her. His mother had the deciding factor that made us split.......The problem there is that if hed said something to me as much as it would have killed me id have stepped aside as they have two Children together and those kids mean the world to me and there happiness was and will alwaysbe top of my adgenda and a family togethetr is precious....... I do miss him and he now sees a shirnk (long story) but she believes him wanting to move back to her was about his kids and not here but he started to stalk me around hed always wanted to know what/who/when/where etc when I was with him but after we split it escalated and he sit outside my house or my mum in his car :s the shrink thinks that he has some mental illness but now hes texting and ringing me asking me to go back to and give us a try part of me wants to but the other part doesnt want to be controlled and only in the last month or two has he stopped following me everywhere....... he hurt me even punched my friend after we split but I love him........ im split by my own opinions
beyond Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 This is a really complicated issue and i cant type everything but we were engadged to be married this year but in january I found out hed been texting his ex saying he wanted to move back with her and still loved her. His mother had the deciding factor that made us split.......The problem there is that if hed said something to me as much as it would have killed me id have stepped aside as they have two Children together and those kids mean the world to me and there happiness was and will alwaysbe top of my adgenda and a family togethetr is precious....... I do miss him and he now sees a shirnk (long story) but she believes him wanting to move back to her was about his kids and not here but he started to stalk me around hed always wanted to know what/who/when/where etc when I was with him but after we split it escalated and he sit outside my house or my mum in his car :s the shrink thinks that he has some mental illness but now hes texting and ringing me asking me to go back to and give us a try part of me wants to but the other part doesnt want to be controlled and only in the last month or two has he stopped following me everywhere....... he hurt me even punched my friend after we split but I love him........ im split by my own opinions It doesn't sound that complicated. You were engaged and then found out he was texting his ex saying he loved her and wanted to be with her. He has mental health issues and has been stalking you and you feel "controlled". None of this sounds like a healthy relationship. Let him carry on sorting out what/who he wants and hopefully continuing to get help for his issues. Meanwhile, focus on you and your life. xx 1
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