tojaz Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Tojaz, by your opinion what is right move? To move on? Live life and wait for her to begin process? That is up to you R2R. If its over and done for you, then by all means file. IF you are chosing to stand, then i wouldn't say move on, but I would say to live your life, work on the things you can and wait for her to either respond to your changes or to make her next move You are right. If not go to details, i known which weakness is exploited. But for now i can do nothing. The grass is much greener otherthere But i am growing my lawn too... but I dont no specifically what to do.. exersice, live my life etc. it ok i am doing that...date oher women i am doing that... seems only one way. To wait? see above... theres no magic formula R2R, knowing what the weaknesses have been in the past is a good place to start working on yourself. Tojaz youre really democtratic. And i agree that it is unfair for all sides. But it seems that such way helps for healing... cruel but true. Logically i wouldnt do that and would wait for my wife to comeback, but this logic doesnt work... I did that. And as we all know doing same thing over and over and expecting different resullt is sign of Insanity? So if I would ask you straight? In my position what would you do..? Just spent time and wait? Or date 100%... or other option? That help is an illusion R2R, looking for another relationship to help fill the void she left behind will soothe you for a time, but it does not heal. If it were for me to chose I would not date. Not just because it is unfair to the woman, or because it sends the wrong message to your wife, or even because you are still in love with your wife, or any of the other reasons that i could list. Its because you have work to do before you are ready for a relationship again, be it with your wife or someone else. What you do not repair from this relationship will be carried on to the next. This isn't just IF I was in your position, these are lessons learned from when I WAS in your position. TOJAZ
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