Mark1 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Im driving home from my night class in my mom's Lexus. Im pulling into the station and a white woman filling up her white BMW 5 series smiles at me. I thought it was kinda odd, but I pulled up at the pump next to her. She says hello, and I ask her how she is doing, and she says she just got back from Vegas for a trade show. She is really exhausted, doesn't like her job etc etc. We continue talking about work etc. We talk about our cars (yes, I told her it was my Lexus, not my mom's) and she said she hates her BMW, always getting repaired. I was really surprised/pleased with how things were going, so I asked for her number and if she wanted to get together sometime to get to know each other better. She said she is seeing someone, but she was going to break it off soon anyways. I didn't have my phone on me, for the first time ever, I left it at home. So she wrote her number on a piece of paper. Then we parted ways. One of the most relaxing convos Ive had with a woman, 1 because she approached me, and 2 cause she was older. When should I text her?
todreaminblue Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Im driving home from my night class in my mom's Lexus. Im pulling into the station and a white woman filling up her white BMW 5 series smiles at me. I thought it was kinda odd, but I pulled up at the pump next to her. She says hello, and I ask her how she is doing, and she says she just got back from Vegas for a trade show. She is really exhausted, doesn't like her job etc etc. We continue talking about work etc. We talk about our cars (yes, I told her it was my Lexus, not my mom's) and she said she hates her BMW, always getting repaired. I was really surprised/pleased with how things were going, so I asked for her number and if she wanted to get together sometime to get to know each other better. She said she is seeing someone, but she was going to break it off soon anyways. I didn't have my phone on me, for the first time ever, I left it at home. So she wrote her number on a piece of paper. Then we parted ways. One of the most relaxing convos Ive had with a woman, 1 because she approached me, and 2 cause she was older. When should I text her? What was she wearing and what colour was it?
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 How old are you? and how old is she? And what are you planning on telling her when you want to pick her up on a tandem bicycle?
Author Mark1 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 How old are you? and how old is she? And what are you planning on telling her when you want to pick her up on a tandem bicycle? Im 24, she looked about 45. My parents let me drive their cars whenever I want.
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Im 24, she looked about 45. My parents let me drive their cars whenever I want. Oh wow, now that's an age difference (although at your age she might have been only 35 ;P). But that is money in the bank then, she knows what she is doing...she wants to pounce you like wild puma. Contact her in a few days or so (doesn't really matter she'll remember you), ask her how she is doing, err on the side of assertiveness but not aggressiveness...try to carry on the conversation and at that point she'll tell you what she has in mind. She will likely come after you, so don't push it or try hard. If she disappears on you, don't fret she's just got drama and something else going on right now, could be a head case...but don't worry too much about that just yet.
Author Mark1 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Oh wow, now that's an age difference (although at your age she might have been only 35 ;P). But that is money in the bank then, she knows what she is doing...she wants to pounce you like wild puma. Contact her in a few days or so (doesn't really matter she'll remember you), ask her how she is doing, err on the side of assertiveness but not aggressiveness...try to carry on the conversation and at that point she'll tell you what she has in mind. She will likely come after you, so don't push it or try hard. If she disappears on you, don't fret she's just got drama and something else going on right now, could be a head case...but don't worry too much about that just yet. Thanks ..........
CarrieT Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 When should I text her? If she is in her 40s and you are in your 20s, than ACT like a mature man. DO NOT TEXT. If an older woman gives you her number it is for a PHONE CALL. We communicate with our voice and use texting for short, information-gathering, not important communication.
Author Mark1 Posted October 5, 2012 Author Posted October 5, 2012 I just got off the phone with her, Tuesday at 6pm at a bar. I offered to give her a ride, but she declined, said she would meet me there. How do I get back to her place? (I live at home)
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 I just got off the phone with her, Tuesday at 6pm at a bar. I offered to give her a ride, but she declined, said she would meet me there. How do I get back to her place? (I live at home) Whoa, slow it down there cowboy. You need to just take it easy and slow your roll...this isn't some naive 20 something that's all nervous and giddy and hopes you like her and think she's cute. This is a woman in her 40's who could be spanking your behind, she's knows her left from right, so you're not going to swoop in there like a casanova and charm your way to the top unless she wanted you to. Throw out the agenda, you need to just go and have a good time (and as a young guy learn patience) and get to know her. Don't be a douche, she doesn't expect you to be the most mature guy in the world...hell she's dating a 24 year old for crying out loud, but still, show a slither of maturity and restraint and she'll let you know If she wants to take it there, you don't worry about that skippy! No pressure, no expectations, you just go and see what happens..and If you don't screw it up...she'll ride you like the wind..maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow...but soon. P.S. She's likely crazy...have fun!
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Why is she likely crazy? The average 45 year old woman doesn't pick up 24 year old's at a gas station while she's still seeing someone else and then meet the guy at a bar the following Tuesday before she even has a chance to end or work out her current relationship...which she probably isn't going to leave from, If she isn't living with this guy and it's her BF or Husband on top of it.
JayL Posted October 5, 2012 Posted October 5, 2012 Why is she likely crazy? Older woman, more experience. Or just one of those women.....
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