Azaroth Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 How would you feel if you felt like your ex didn't want to talk to you - haven't spoken to your ex for about 3 weeks... then out of the blue they call you up and leaves a msg on your VM - jsut calling to say hi, hope everything is goign welll... you call your ex back and at the end of the convo your ex says, it's really nice to hear your voice... how would you feel? what would you think your ex is thing/doing and could it be b/c school is coming back in 4 weeks keep in mind i was the one that dumped my ex..
jw32802 Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 wait if you dumped him, are you deciding you want him back?
Author Azaroth Posted July 28, 2004 Author Posted July 28, 2004 Not him, her... but i am switching the rolls - to get a girls point of view I is her and her is me (im a guy)
honey2005 Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 I think I know what your saying...but do you want to get back with her?
Bart_Weisser Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 If I see this correctly: Azaroth (a guy) dumps his girl Girl calls back after a couple weeks ---- She still misses you. The serious thing is to ask yourself why you dumped her in the first place. It is easier for the dumped female to remain friends with the guy, then it is the other way around. So, if you are the ethical type, you should ask her to respect this boundary and remain as friends. She will have little trouble doing so (unlike a guy). The other thing is that she want you to be her booty call. If you're still single and available, it is still your duty to go through with it (for her sake; it's a lot better than her picking up some random guy from a bar). Go through that "just friends (but with benefits)" ritual and make sure she knows that. The point is, that you need to know where you stand, and stick to it. If, after some contact -- whether sexual or non-sexual -- you have rekindled the relationship, by all means go back to her. Otherwise, let her know that you two are just friends (maybe with benefits) and nothing more. BW.
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