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the best advice I can ever give

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What happened? :(

 

I tend to give the opposite advice. But you have to understand the language of the heart properly for that to be good advice.

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What happened? :(

 

I tend to give the opposite advice. But you have to understand the language of the heart properly for that to be good advice.

 

lets say I will never trust what I feel again, this is the last time I will ever let my emotions get the better of me.

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I'm sorry you are hurting today.

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Yes

your heart just tells you what you want to hear.

turn it cold and problem solved darling.

 

 

 

Is she a cancer?

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Is she a cancer?

sagittarius

 

I'm a scorpio

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sagittarius

 

I'm a scorpio

 

Sag is prone to using people as rebounds. srs

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Ronin, we're not in a movie, you have have to take everything with a grain of salt/pragmatism. .

 

I did that, and still got shredded.

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sagittarius

 

I'm a scorpio

 

 

 

Does your sign discribe you perfectly?

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Does your sign discribe you perfectly?

 

100%

 

Even though I know what my weaknesses are, they still hurt me some times.

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100%

 

Even though I know what my weaknesses are, they still hurt me some times.

 

 

my face should be next to the definition in the dictionary.

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100%

 

Even though I know what my weaknesses are, they still hurt me some times.

 

your sign is very heavy

 

Stay away from a Sag or a libra.

 

Taurus, Scorpio, cancer, pisces, capricorn for you

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your sign is very heavy

 

I'll be OK in a few days, but when i'm low, I'm as low as you can get.

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I'll be OK in a few days, but when i'm low, I'm as low as you can get.

 

You are a very intense sign and you must pick someone who you will mesh will with personally. Airy signs will not mesh will. Pisces, cancer, virgo, and snother scorpio.

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That's what I said few years ago. I made more rational, safe choices since. I went for guys that were good for me "on paper".

 

Two things happened. Firstly, I had this constant feeling of emptiness. I went through the motions of dating, relationships, but my heart was never in it.

 

Secondly, even though I was 100% loyal to those guys, they still let me down in the similar ways in the end.

 

So what's the point? True, I never got heart-broken; my heart wasn't in it to make that possible. But I might just as well be dead.

 

Back to my heart :)

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So what's the point? True, I never got heart-broken; my heart wasn't in it to make that possible. But I might just as well be dead.

 

I usually consider my heart second, and those who I care about first.

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it's one of those times when being a Scorpio is a bad thing.

 

Bull****.Being a Scorpio is never a bad thing...

 

Maybe it's bad for the other person

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Bull****.Being a Scorpio is never a bad thing...

 

Maybe it's bad for the other person

 

my self destructive nature tonight disagrees.

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I think sometimes we just have a tendency to invest our hearts at the wrong time with the wrong people.

 

Sometimes we see love as a leap of faith when we're just jumping off a cliff, It's gotta be the right timing with the right person, and sometimes we don't do it because it doesn't seem like the right time or person or we're afraid so we take a pass...then other times It feels wrong, and the other person isn't there emotionally but we take the chance anyway, then you get burned...It's like going up for a pass, and watching the ball go right through your hands.

 

It can be hard to tell who's talking to you...your mind attempting to convince with and your desire, or your heart...your gut usually tells you something is off but we often choose not to listen to it in favor of what we want to happen.

 

I can get so emotional because my desire and passion is so great for what I want that it just doesn't even care or listen, It's hard to keep that in check but at the end of the day I know I have to or I'd be all over the place, possibly hurt the other person in the process emotionally, or that I'm just being crazy...so I pull back and just watch it like a ship sailing by...just stand there and do nothing until it goes out of sight and It's too late to do anything about it.

 

It's quite saddening at times.

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I've learned 1 thing in the last 12 hours that I will make sure I never ever ever forget . my biggest asset is also my biggest liability .

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Apparently, you should become a man.

 

Men aren't supposed to feel heartbreak or rejection and if you got rejected/hurt, you're supposed to move on to the next one by Thursday.

 

And men definitely aren't supposed to let a woman change the way they do things, such as diving in emotion first.

 

At least this is what I have heard from LoveShack...

 

But condolences on your loss. Hopefully, you will be hung up for only a few days or a few weeks and not months to years like mine do...

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your sign is very heavy

 

Stay away from a Sag or a libra.

 

Taurus, Scorpio, cancer, pisces, capricorn for you

 

What about Aquarius, Gemini?

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I was having a conversation with an older guy the other day and he gave me some advice.

 

1. People have demons. It could be them not anything you did.

2. In life you have to lose to learn how to win.

3. You're not living until you take chances. You strikeout with one, you get back out there and take another swing. Eventually you will hit the ball.

 

Hope this helps.

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What about Aquarius, Gemini?

 

no. They will hurt you. You will think they take you for granted. You can not stand the 2facness of gemini or the independence of aquarius. They will both make you feel unloved and used.

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