blue_jay_bird Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 This is for people in longterm relationships. Have you ever gone to the "Separation and Divorce." page on LS. Whenever i feel like i want to contact my ex i go there. THINK ABOUT IT. You could have married this person, and instead of posting " he/she broke up with me" you could be "he/she wants a divorce" you could have had a child with this person, and had to deal with that. I guess today i'm counting my blessings. IT'S a blessing he/she has left you. Now you can find someone that will never let you go.
lil hoodlum Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I too have gone on the "separation and divorce" sections here on the LS. You are right, it is very disturbing and sad. Those stories are what scare me about marrying the wrong person. I was going to ask my exgirlfriend to marry me this year. In my heart and mind I don't think we would have done any of those horrible things I have read there but, I also never thought we would break up either. When I try to place my self in those posters shoes, I imagine they never thought they would find themselves in their particular situation either. Why can't people just be honest with themselves and each other. I am more than willing to forgive and forget becuase no one is perfect and we all make mistakes in life. We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are, warts and all! As for my relationship with the ex, we had a good relationship and it is worth fighting for. I will readily admit that I am the one that had foolish pride and acted selfishly at times. I have learned my lesson and unfortunetly I have paid a high price for this. I truely am the biggest fool. 1
suladas Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Never looked in there until now. It is really sad and makes me realize what i'm dealing with is nothing compared to most there.
ponette Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I too have gone on the "separation and divorce" sections here on the LS. You are right, it is very disturbing and sad. Those stories are what scare me about marrying the wrong person. I was going to ask my exgirlfriend to marry me this year. In my heart and mind I don't think we would have done any of those horrible things I have read there but, I also never thought we would break up either. When I try to place my self in those posters shoes, I imagine they never thought they would find themselves in their particular situation either. Why can't people just be honest with themselves and each other. I am more than willing to forgive and forget becuase no one is perfect and we all make mistakes in life. We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are, warts and all! As for my relationship with the ex, we had a good relationship and it is worth fighting for. I will readily admit that I am the one that had foolish pride and acted selfishly at times. I have learned my lesson and unfortunetly I have paid a high price for this. I truely am the biggest fool. you're not a fool. fight for your ex. straighten out whatever you need to and show the ex you're different. that's what i'm trying to do. may get shot down. don't know.
naplex Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 My 1999 Oldsmoible alero shakes when in park and gets worse when in drive what could be wrong?
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