riverratt Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I friend of mine came to me for some advise. He knows I am finishing up a divorce and thought I might be able to help but I don't know what to say.. The story is....20 + years ago "A" was in a relationship with a girl. They were in their late teens. They were together for over a year. Actually got pregnant but they lost the child. They were very tight and everybody thought they would be together for ever. Something different then your ordinary teen age thing. Anyway she had to move away. She is back now and has been for awhile. They moved on and both are married now. Not "happy" but not totally sad either. One conversation has lead to another and they both now know that neither one of them had lost their feelings for each other. They haven't contacted each other but they both know how the other feels because of what people have told them. It is like they are forever linked, somehow. I was asked what he should do. They know they can't be around each other alone because they know what would happen. I hate to tell somebody to leave a marriage but everybody knows how they felt for each other. They still remember. I remember. He loves his wife very much but for some reason the other woman still there and very strong. I don't know what to tell him. It is fate or destiny or what. Does he blow it off or do they let their feelings take over. Somebody will get hurt in the deal but at what point do you go with your own feelings and your own heart?
Balzac Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Great love story but question #1 regards existing children whom are likely adults?
Author riverratt Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 yeah, The youngest is 17 between the two... Like a script from a chick flick
Balzac Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 (edited) Adults survive hurt. I do believe it's chick flick & lit because IRL these scenarios do occur. I can only imagine the pull of desire and attraction. The question becomes do they separate from spouses before the impending flames of passion ignite into an inferno? Edited October 3, 2012 by Balzac Divorce is ending a business.
Author riverratt Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 flames of passion ignite into an inferno? And it would take a matter of seconds.. They have avoided contact.
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