BlueandGreen Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 So I've been wit this girl for 8 months since Friday the 28th and I love her but I feel things are unequal and I don't really know what to tell her. We live an hour apart and anytime I we get to see each other depends on me and or my family. I go to school full time and currently looking for a job. I haven't worked really since my uncle passed away(over a year ago). I also have to travel to school which is 200 miles a week just for 3 days of class. She doesn't work, doesn't have a car and doesn't go to school and hasn't really made any initiative towards it. Right as we started dating she was basically let go from her job and she hasn't looked for one since. Not with serious intentions anyway. I haven't got to see her in over 2 weeks either. This last weekend she could of gotten a ride down through my means but took a house sitting "job" opportunity earlier in the week despite me telling her this weekend was free. So it seems she was more worried about pleasing her mums friends than she was to seeing me- after all it had been 2 freaking weeks. Then I come to find out she was allowed to have people over but she didn't mention that to me. If she told me I could of just gone there myself but no. She did however have a friend stay the night. Here is another example of the ****ery that is. The last weekend I saw her I had to travel and I almost didn't go due to her mum. I went to a Scottish festival with them and I almost regret going. Her mum is plain rude whenever she speaks to me and trust me she only speaks to me when she has something rude to say. Her mum refuses to get to know me and I still went to see her despite her mum. I put up with all this **** and she doesn't see me this weekend and denies me information to which I could of used to see her. Okay so I'm not pleased with how things are going but that isn't it. My girlfriend practically begged me not to drink anything during the Scottish festival the night before. So out of respect I didn't drink anything. She also doesn't want me drinking without her around, so again out of respect to her and her wishes I don't. My problem is with her asking me not to do these things while she does something I requested she not do. Where is the equal respect? I simply ask her not to walk at night- that is it. But as much as I tell her I don't like it, she continues to do so. I feel very disrespected when I put out and do for her and she doesn't return the favor. So in the time being she refuses to go on cam even though she gets to enjoy seeing me on it. Her reasons for not getting on are A. I don't like getting on cam and B. I look like ****. Hello? We have been dating over 8 months now- tell me what I haven't seen. Excuses. This is my rant. I don't know what else or really what to tell her.
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