Author somedude81 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Somedude aren't you Cuban so that would put you in the same boat as the people you are whining about. Half Cuban, half white. I Look, act and identify as white. I don't speak any Spanish. And tell me, how many threads have I made where I complain that white girls don't like me? Focusing only on white girls? I've pursued women of just about every ethnicity.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Half Cuban, half white. I Look, act and identify as white. I don't speak any Spanish. And tell me, how many threads have I made where I complain that white girls don't like me? Focusing only on white girls? I've pursued women of just about every ethnicity. Why identify as white?
Onpoint Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 This will not be a conversation held amongst a group of Brothers. Most Brothers mind their own business and date and marry who they feel compatible with. I guess the 'minding your own business' aspect comes from the streets and is naturally ingrained. I even saw a commenter in this thread say "stealing our women" as if women are a piece of property. That is pathetic! 3
Necris Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Look it up dude. Half of all AMERICAN BORN asian females date non asian men. And those are usually white guys they are marrying. Theres a lot to be said about Asian female-Asian male relations, and also how Asian females view their own race and culture, given the fact that they date out at such a higher rate than any other females. Sure white guys chasing them has much to do with it. But go on youtube and see exactly how some Asian girls talk about their men. Its shameful at times. Actually from the statistics its not quite half but its still very high at about 20% which is extremely high compared to everyone else and of all possible interracial relationship combinations asian female white male is by far the most common.
Author somedude81 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Why identify as white? Cause it's how I was raised. My dad is very Americanized and he never spoke Spanish in the home. Also, where I live there are no Cuban's. I've never met another Cuban that wasn't a member of my family. The only Hispanic's I have known are Mexican and I have no desire to be more like them. BTW, my mom is light skinned, blonde hair with blue eyes. I've seen some pictures of her when she was in her early 20's and she was exactly the type of girl I'm normally interested in. Before anybody calls me Oedipus, there have been many studies that said that men are attracted to women who look like their mother.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I laugh sometimes because because they talk about white men not liking try being a black man and having to deal with black women not liking you date outside your race especially if the woman is white. I caught hell from coworkers once because a black women that worked with me I think liked me and checked out my facebook and asked if all I dated was white women. I said no but they were the only ones at the time when I really saw success that responded favorably to me so I kept going with that. Later she found out she liked me but she wasn't my type too ghetto and not the right complexion for me. I prefer lighter skinned black women when I do date black women. From then on I had black female coworkers make little comments about my perceived preferences. Once day someone brought food to work and a female offered to fix my plate and a black female coworker said " You shouldn't fix him sh*t you ain't his white wife". It pissed me off to the 1000th power. I have had female family member make comments to me. I just merely respond with hell you ain't had a man in years so what do you know.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Cause it's how I was raised. My dad is very Americanized and he never spoke Spanish in the home. Also, where I live there are no Cuban's. I've never met another Cuban that wasn't a member of my family. The only Hispanic's I have known are Mexican and I have no desire to be more like them. BTW, my mom is light skinned, blonde hair with blue eyes. I've seen some pictures of her when she was in her early 20's and she was exactly the type of girl I'm normally interested in. Before anybody calls me Oedipus, there have been many studies that said that men are attracted to women who look like their mother. I guess I am an exception to that study.
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I have no idea why everyone wants a white woman, white people are sociopaths. Well, I don't want a white woman.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Cause it's how I was raised. My dad is very Americanized and he never spoke Spanish in the home. Also, where I live there are no Cuban's. I've never met another Cuban that wasn't a member of my family. The only Hispanic's I have known are Mexican and I have no desire to be more like them. BTW, my mom is light skinned, blonde hair with blue eyes. I've seen some pictures of her when she was in her early 20's and she was exactly the type of girl I'm normally interested in. Before anybody calls me Oedipus, there have been many studies that said that men are attracted to women who look like their mother. Maybe you should embrace that Cuban side of you. I know plenty of people of a different ethnicity that are Americanized but embrace who they are.
GirlontheLam Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I've read articles about how many models of color are still usually looking like white women with a different skin tone. One that really hit home was how few black women you see as models who have their hair natural, and perhaps other body features seen on African women. There are typically two types of "models of color:" 1. Ones that look like white people with a darker skin tone 2. Ones that have "typical" features never get jobs where they are perceived as "attractive.' I.e. they get weird clothes, weird poses, weird makeup or weird roles that are creating a fetish out of exoticism This crosses over into movie roles etc, and it works the same way. 2
Ruby Slippers Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Before I moved to Chicago from the South, where I grew up, I dated almost all white guys, because those are the guys who approached me. I dated one black guy for about a month, and both of our families subtly let us know they didn't approve (his mom and my dad). Once I started dating in Chicago, I dated some guys of other ethnicities, because they approached me - Latino, half-Filipino/half-white, and Indian. I'm white with blonde hair and blue eyes, and I was surprised by how many comments these guys made about my white features - my "exotic blue eyes", "milky white skin", and so on. Also, a few of them clearly communicated that they saw me as some special prize just because I'm white. One Latino guy I dated said he had never dated a white girl before, and his friends were all slapping him on the back about getting with his first white girl. I asked the Indian guy if he saw it as a marker of status to be with a white woman. He said no, he's just most attracted to white women with blonde hair and blue or green eyes. I did find it odd, though, that he said he is not attracted to Indian women whatsoever. Seems strange to me to have no attraction to your own ethnicity. 1
kaylan Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Actually from the statistics its not quite half but its still very high at about 20% which is extremely high compared to everyone else and of all possible interracial relationship combinations asian female white male is by far the most common. Again...are you looking at the stats for AMERICAN BORN Asians....or just Asians in general? All the stats for American Born Asians I have seen, puts it around 35% to 50% of females marrying outside their race. That makes you think about the cultural angle in regards to marriage and attraction. It would seem that second generation Asian Americans arent closely tied to their culture and sense of one-ness the way that their elders are.Small fraction still man, it isn't that widespread as you think. Majority of them are so whitewashed that Asian men don't want em and generally, most attractive Asian girls I know in real life only go for Asian men, and I mean East Asian men so I am out of luck. One-third to One-half of an entire group of American born females is not a small fraction at all. Learn your math. Plus its an interesting sociological phenomenon when compared to the lower rates at which other American women date outside their race.
RiverRunning Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 All women can be attractive, but face it - most of these people are writing from the U.S. White people still make up more than 70% of the U.S. population (although they're a falling majority) - most of the women these guys meet are probably going to be white (unless they're in areas that are predominantly black or something else). Can you blame them for wanting to know what white women are interested in when...the majority of those they meet are white? Most people still pair off according to race, so of course they're wanting attention from the largest group of women out there. Do I think all of the threads are pointless? Yes, because white women are as varied as any other person in terms of what they'd like. Do I blame guys for being curious about it? Not at all.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 ....." You shouldn't fix him sh*t you ain't his white wife". It pissed me off to the 1000th power. I have had female family member make comments to me. I just merely respond with hell you ain't had a man in years so what do you know. This. If you are a black man and date a white woman your family may be even more resistant than her's. I have a brother who left us to join the airforce. We found him on FB and he had this one white woman who he must have been quite close to on it. Some members of our family think he left, and stayed gone, because he married a white woman. One uncle was persona non grata for decades on account of having married a white woman. Male family members don't seem to care as much. For men, it's just hard enough getting and keeping a good woman to care about her race. As it has been said, the simple fact that most women in the USA and UK are white means a man (or lesbian or bisexual) needs to be able to charm white women. Then there is the problem that some, not all, black women act entitled to successful black men. I have seen myself that black girls are the worst when it comes to wanting thugs when younger, but expecting someone they once called a simp or succa to take care of them and their babies.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 This. If you are a black man and date a white woman your family may be even more resistant than her's. I have a brother who left us to join the airforce. We found him on FB and he had this one white woman who he must have been quite close to on it. Some members of our family think he left, and stayed gone, because he married a white woman. One uncle was persona non grata for decades on account of having married a white woman. Male family members don't seem to care as much. For men, it's just hard enough getting and keeping a good woman to care about her race. As it has been said, the simple fact that most women in the USA and UK are white means a man (or lesbian or bisexual) needs to be able to charm white women. Then there is the problem that some, not all, black women act entitled to successful black men. I have seen myself that black girls are the worst when it comes to wanting thugs when younger, but expecting someone they once called a simp or succa to take care of them and their babies. This is so true. Where I live black women in their 30s still wanting thugs
Onpoint Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 This. If you are a black man and date a white woman your family may be even more resistant than her's. Male family members don't seem to care as much. Then there is the problem that some, not all, black women act entitled to successful black men. I have seen myself that black girls are the worst when it comes to wanting thugs when younger, but expecting someone they once called a simp or succa to take care of them and their babies. This. I've seen it many times.
SmileFace Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I don't know if it is because I am not American but I don't have much male family members but 2/3 of them are married to have kids with white females. My family members have no problem with it. Plus most of my females family members do date outside of our culture and race.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Yes it may well be an American thing. African Americans have a specific history in the USA that makes interracial dating tricky. Just consider the racial purity laws and movies like "birth of a nation", or even "Superfly". It goes beyond white women to other races too. There is still this idea of black men (and women too really) as lowly, thugish, more sexual, exoitc, etc. Forbidden and desirable yet still forbidden. So it cuts both ways. While in other places in the Americas you can have very black Pele and blue eyed blonde Xuxa do a TV commercial together. That still might not play well in Kansas and Alabama.
Author somedude81 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 All women can be attractive, but face it - most of these people are writing from the U.S. White people still make up more than 70% of the U.S. population (although they're a falling majority) - most of the women these guys meet are probably going to be white (unless they're in areas that are predominantly black or something else). Can you blame them for wanting to know what white women are interested in when...the majority of those they meet are white? Most people still pair off according to race, so of course they're wanting attention from the largest group of women out there. Over than 70% of the U.S. population is white? It sure doesn't seem that way to me. So I did a little research. http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/index.html White persons not Hispanic, percent, 2011 63.4% Not quite 70% but still a majority. Then I saw California: 39.7% Then narrowing it down even more Los Angeles County: 27.6% I need to GTFO.
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