GirlontheLam Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 But I do think a lot of black women like to date mostly only black men. Well it really just depends. A lot of black women are opening to dating out, but it is perceived that we don't so many people don't even try. And then of course there is that subset of people who never leave the "black box" and must only associate, socialize etc with other black people. If you meet a black woman who has interracial friendships she is super likely to be open to dating out. The same holds true with white women, but in my experience, it is at a lower ratio than the equivalent black women. I don't have enough personal evidence with the Latinas and Asians to make a guesstimate, they tend to date out more.
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Look man, you make it harder than it seems to be. I live in a very White state, most women who approach me, compliment me, and all that, are White. Asian women and Brown women give me a hard time, hell, some LATINAS are racist as phuark here (especially the lighter ones that want to be White). You can't put a statistic on this. People will say all types of garbage but they will not stick with their preferences. If your swagger is tight, those women will easily switch their preferences and screw you. People's preferences change like the seasons. We talked about all of this last night. It depends on location. I'm a stud in the city and a nobody in my neighborhood. It doesn't make me upset, or discourage me, but I acknowledge the fact that most women in my area are close minded and the ones in the city are more open minded and accepting. I'm not going to act like I have an equal opportunity for success in both places because I don't. I'm optimistic about certain things in life, and realistic in others. When it comes to dating, I'm a realist.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I can't blame you for that just as I can't blame that other kid for his lack of success in the deep south. What kinda White women have you dated? Gingers? Blondes? all kinds ginger blondes and brunettes
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 interesting, have most of em been the all american White kind, were they the ghetto kind of white? country kind? Most were country kind but a few were from city. None were ghetto.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Lucky, I usually run into the suburban types. So those country kind you ran into, did they must have a thing for Black and White men or did they show interests in wanting to be with other kinds of men too? Most like black and white men but that is because of the area.
Els Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 The majority of Asian guys that I know of, are not eager to be with Caucasian women for long-term relationships, for reasons that I will not detail here because they are as stereotypical and insulting to white women, as the reasons given against women of other races in this thread. Frankly, I'd think that after so many years of civilization, people could be capable of looking past the color of one's skin to the person beneath. Perhaps my hopes for humanity are way too high? I think everyone posting those ridiculous threads is pathetically insecure and requires more help than they could ever get on this forum. Me, myself, I don't give a sh*t if white women or any other women are considered more desirable than me. It's not at all hard for me to gain the interest of men of any and every ethnic background. Why? Likely because I don't sit around and whine over how others allegedly have it so much better. Quoted for truth!! 1
Necris Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I think it has something to do with the generally very positive portrayal of white women in the media and their overwhelming numbers in media as well. Also there is the demographics aspect, where I live the overwhelming majority of the population is white, then there is alot of hispanic people, a good amount of asians, few black people, and very few indians. So the overwhelming majority of women that you come across are white.
Biscous Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Personal experience, growing around mostly whites as a black man, I have found myself more drawn to them. I'm over the backlash from black women on this subject. I have dated black women too. Something about the feminine energy of a white woman I enjoy. Not ALL of them, I'm picky. That's not to say I'm not attracted to other women, just more strongly attracted to white women on average. But I do get annoyed by the threads on this subject and also the self hate from my non-white brothers that is implied, but I think some are environments like I was growing up being one of the few 'brown/black' guys in an area and seeing mostly white women so you can't entirely fault them.
O'farrell Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Only on these fourms I've seen these type of people. Mixed people and middle easterns are the prettiest. You can solve this whole thread by answering this question. Nationality and hair color?
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 how do you think a latino or indian guy would do with em? They would do ok. You learn that with interracial relationships most of the time is the actual person not race that matters. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 interesting, have most of em been the all american White kind, were they the ghetto kind of white? country kind? Or, were they maybe the porno kind, or the cheerleader kind?
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 White guys, embrace that you have colored eyes and colored hair. Black guys, embrace that you have, well, ya know! Asian guys, embrace your beautiful golden skin and big brains. Indian guys, embrace your kama sutra skills. Arab guys, embrace your money and how you have lots of it. Hispanic guys, embrace that you are passionate. That's right, guys. Embrace the racial stereotypes about yourselves. I don't think so. Embrace your heritage, sure, but move beyond that. This poster and quite a few others have a very (IMO) unhealthy preoccupation with race. I'm sure every white, black, asian, hispanic, etc. guy reading this has plenty of individual characteristics that set him apart from other guys, even those in his own ethnic group. 3
nessaaa Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 You can solve this whole thread by answering this question. Nationality and hair color? Lol how is that solving anything? Gosh what a nerdo.
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 You can solve this whole thread by answering this question. Nationality and hair color? That's not even a question, dude.
O'farrell Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Lol how is that solving anything? Gosh what a nerdo. whoops I thought this was a thread by an indian talking about how no one likes him. So many around lol
kaylan Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Its rather pathetic the dozens of threads from "brown and asian guys" on their exhausting pining for white women. I wonder if White women are secretly flattered by this unwavering fixation. Besides White men extolling the virtues of their own women , I never knew White women were such an over-valued commodity and I am part of a community that sees white women far more favorably than their own women. But then they don't create dozens of threads about them,nor do they brag incessantly about how many white women they dated on the internet. It just seems inconceivable that White women are individuals and are just as diverse as any other woman. Im pretty sure its the same one or two brown guys making these threads over and over.white women are the prettiest over all, of course there are ugly ones too. But when they are pretty, there is no other ethnic group that can beat them. This is the main reason most non white guys go after white girls Most of us love blondes, redheads etc.. and colored eyes For us non white guys those features are very exotic and attractive I really want a white woman now.... Youre non white? Suuuuurrree....a non white person with a KKK name talking about how awesome white women are. Yep I believe you are a non white guy 1
kaylan Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Nope The rate of White male - Asian female marriage is high due to so many soldiers marrying women abroad, war brides, and guys using mail order brides Look it up dude. Half of all AMERICAN BORN asian females date non asian men. And those are usually white guys they are marrying. Theres a lot to be said about Asian female-Asian male relations, and also how Asian females view their own race and culture, given the fact that they date out at such a higher rate than any other females. Sure white guys chasing them has much to do with it. But go on youtube and see exactly how some Asian girls talk about their men. Its shameful at times. 1
Later82012 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I think these are all people that grew up in an atmosphere where their parents or guardians are insecure and have inferiority complex issues and they picked it up as kids. I know this is harsh, but I think they do not know what dignity means. It is unfortunate that they most probably are going to teach their kids the same thing directly or indirectly through their behavior.
Later82012 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 That's right, guys. Embrace the racial stereotypes about yourselves. I don't think so. Embrace your heritage, sure, but move beyond that. This poster and quite a few others have a very (IMO) unhealthy preoccupation with race. I'm sure every white, black, asian, hispanic, etc. guy reading this has plenty of individual characteristics that set him apart from other guys, even those in his own ethnic group. I love you granny for most of your posts but hate your arrogance that reflects in some of your posts. I hope you forgive me for taking some liberty with you here.
AlexDP Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 white women are the prettiest over all, of course there are ugly ones too. But when they are pretty, there is no other ethnic group that can beat them. This is the main reason most non white guys go after white girls Most of us love blondes, redheads etc.. and colored eyes For us non white guys those features are very exotic and attractive I really want a white woman now.... It's still individual preference. I have a white mate who only dates black girls.
Titanwolf Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Meh, most of the white girls I've met these days are all predominantly interested in black men. Must be a London thing. Have you ever travelled to Essex?...Never again -_- 1
stillafool Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Like mentioned before i believe its whats being portrayed in the media as the new "in" thing so everyone else wants to follow suit. I'd say that 75% of today's interracial relationships are based off of this theory. No this is not a new "in" thing. I'm over 50 and white girls were dating black guys when I was in high school. Some were at the prom together. White women and black men have been attracted to each other for a long time. It's just that now people don't care as much as they did back then. Except for LS that is.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Somedude aren't you Cuban so that would put you in the same boat as the people you are whining about.
grkBoy Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Meh...I never let race play in on my tastes, despite that I'm Caucasian. I've met Latina, Asian, and even Black and Indian (like from India) women I found attractive. Didn't get anywhere with them though. I think for some of the guys who want white women, it's as others stated. Hollywood and Fashion heavily worship how white women look. I've read articles about how many models of color are still usually looking like white women with a different skin tone. One that really hit home was how few black women you see as models who have their hair natural, and perhaps other body features seen on African women. It's because of this media influence that we see the perceived "scarcity" one might think of. Think about it. You take the entire populace of women, remove all the non-whites, then all the fat women, and all the single moms (I know this isn't fair, but I'm thinking like the typical complainer here), drama queens, basketcases/psychos...and you're left with a very small amount of women with loads of men wanting them. I personally think if you're trying to get with a "Ferrari" of any race...you had better be someone that Ferrari wants driving her. If you're a Yugo, then work on that rather than complain that life isn't fair.
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