somedude81 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Every day there is at least 2-3 threads made asking if white girls like X guy. Do we need a white chicks consolidated discussion thread? 4
Zed Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Its rather pathetic the dozens of threads from "brown and asian guys" on their exhausting pining for white women. I wonder if White women are secretly flattered by this unwavering fixation. Besides White men extolling the virtues of their own women , I never knew White women were such an over-valued commodity and I am part of a community that sees white women far more favorably than their own women. But then they don't create dozens of threads about them,nor do they brag incessantly about how many white women they dated on the internet. It just seems inconceivable that White women are individuals and are just as diverse as any other woman. 1
Author somedude81 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Its rather pathetic the dozens of threads from "brown and asian guys" on their exhausting pining for white women. I wonder if White women are secretly flattered by this unwavering fixation. Besides White men extolling the virtues of their own women , I never knew White women were such an over-valued commodity and I am part of a community that sees white women far more favorably than their own women. But then they don't create dozens of threads about them,nor do they brag incessantly about how many white women they dated on the internet. It just seems inconceivable that White women are individuals and are just as diverse as any other woman. I have never understood why white women seem to be better than women of one's own ethnicity. Women of all races can be beautiful and amazing. 4
january2011 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I vote for a multi-cultural dating thread. 1
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Its rather pathetic the dozens of threads from "brown and asian guys" on their exhausting pining for white women. I wonder if White women are secretly flattered by this unwavering fixation. Besides White men extolling the virtues of their own women , I never knew White women were such an over-valued commodity and I am part of a community that sees white women far more favorably than their own women. But then they don't create dozens of threads about them,nor do they brag incessantly about how many white women they dated on the internet. It just seems inconceivable that White women are individuals and are just as diverse as any other woman. I've never chased after white women. All told, the number of white women that I've gone after (not counting hitting on drunk in bars and clubs) is maybe ... 7. 0 for 7. One of them I REALLY liked though. Interestingly enough, if there's one race that doesn't like white women, it's Asian men. I've met a number of Asian guys who don't like white women. I think part of it is sour grapes because they think they don't have a chance though.
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I will trade you 1 white girl for 3 ethnics. I wish I could get three of my own women to trade you (or one for that matter)...
SmileFace Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 If that happens I want my own damn consolidated thread. One for Asian males and black females! 6
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Because of the perceived scarcity. Like it's been said plenty of times on here by me and other members, white women are the least likely to date outside their race. If it was a different ethnicity that fit that mold, like latinas. If latinas were the least likely to date outside their race, then we would be seeing threads like "do latinas like asians?", "what do latinas think of east indian men?", "how can a white guy get a latina?" etc etc It's more about the perceived rarity/scarcity of an ethnic man dating a white woman and less about the actual physical traits of white women. Women of all ethnicities are beautiful, except other ethnicities are more likely to date around than are white women.
Zed Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I've never chased after white women. All told, the number of white women that I've gone after (not counting hitting on drunk in bars and clubs) is maybe ... 7. 0 for 7. One of them I REALLY liked though. Interestingly enough, if there's one race that doesn't like white women, it's Asian men. I've met a number of Asian guys who don't like white women. I think part of it is sour grapes because they think they don't have a chance though. You didn't chase but I bet you yearned and over romantizced them more so then any other woman. The biggest whiners and unrequited fanatics have been Asian and Indians. By far. Honestly if White women were even half heartedly more receptive to East Asian men, out marriage rates would rival Asian women and White men.
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Because of the perceived scarcity. Like it's been said plenty of times on here by me and other members, white women are the least likely to date outside their race. I wonder if anyone can guess what the most likely is ... by a landslide.
irin Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 i havent got a clue. the most beautiful women ive ever seen, were latinas, asians. middle-eastern, Africans. they age beautifully as well. maybe ive just grown up around too many white people. i dont find them to be anything special. theyr just like everyone else.
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Not really, dating statistics lie, How do dating statistics lie? tons of White girls I know IRL go for guys outside their own race. Seen like 5 Brown guy - White girl couples, never seen an Indian or Middle Eastern dude (except for myself) with a latina before. Didn't we talk about this yesterday? That's your personal experience and in mine, white women almost never date outside. The numbers suggest that what I'm saying is more in line with the norm and your experience is an outlier. Every site I visit, whether here, or when I'm on a PUA forum, or anywhere on the internet that talks about dating; I always see men of color asking why it's so hard for them to get white women. Surely it's not a conspiracy where all these men of color decided to troll every dating forum on the internet and present a false reality. There's a reason why these threads keep popping up--they are grounded in reality. Now I'm not going to be extreme and act like minorities never date white women or will never have a shot at dating one, but the numbers are what they are, and I'm not going to pretend like we live in this great happy dating world where everyone has a fair shot. That's not reality.
Zed Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Nope The rate of White male - Asian female marriage is high due to so many soldiers marrying women abroad, war brides, and guys using mail order brides Nope. Earlier stats reflected this initial trend but now must of those couples actually reflect similar from middle class backgrounds. Stats may "lie" but the Census bureau is more accurate then your ancedata.
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 You didn't chase but I bet you yearned and over romantizced them more so then any other woman. The biggest whiners and unrequited fanatics have been Asian and Indians. By far. Honestly if White women were even half heartedly more receptive to East Asian men, out marriage rates would rival Asian women and White men. Not really. You're talking to the wrong person. I don't care that much about looks and if I had a preference, it'd be Asian. I've always liked Asian gals. But I do think you are right. If white women liked Asian guys like white guys liked Asian women, there'd be tons more marriage crossing over on that side.
tigressA Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I think everyone posting those ridiculous threads is pathetically insecure and requires more help than they could ever get on this forum. Me, myself, I don't give a sh*t if white women or any other women are considered more desirable than me. It's not at all hard for me to gain the interest of men of any and every ethnic background. Why? Likely because I don't sit around and whine over how others allegedly have it so much better. 11
ThaWholigan Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 How do dating statistics lie? Didn't we talk about this yesterday? That's your personal experience and in mine, white women almost never date outside. The numbers suggest that what I'm saying is more in line with the norm and your experience is an outlier. Every site I visit, whether here, or when I'm on a PUA forum, or anywhere on the internet that talks about dating; I always see men of color asking why it's so hard for them to get white women. Surely it's not a conspiracy where all these men of color decided to troll every dating forum on the internet and present a false reality. There's a reason why these threads keep popping up--they are grounded in reality. Now I'm not going to be extreme and act like minorities never date white women or will never have a shot at dating one, but the numbers are what they are, and I'm not going to pretend like we live in this great happy dating world where everyone has a fair shot. That's not reality. Meh, most of the white girls I've met these days are all predominantly interested in black men. Must be a London thing. 1
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 You don't believe dating statistics lie? According to an OkCupid dating chart based on race and dating, Indian men have a better chance with White women than with Indian women based on reply rates. See how much the dating statistics are full of crap? So you run into a bunch of racist east coast Italians, big deal, I can run into a bunch of arabs who only date their own and say Arab women are picky I wouldn't doubt the indian men thing because it seems a lot of asian women and indian women if they're americanized prefer to date outside of their race. Sadly, some of them believe the stereotypes of their own race and would prefer to date someone different. If we're talking okc, I can only provide my anecdotal experience. For any girl of color's page I visited, they all answered the "would you strongly prefer to date someone your own race" question the same: "No" When I visited the pages of white women, that question was split pretty much 50/50 with half answering no and half answering yes.
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Every site I visit, whether here, or when I'm on a PUA forum, or anywhere on the internet that talks about dating; I always see men of color asking why it's so hard for them to get white women. Surely it's not a conspiracy where all these men of color decided to troll every dating forum on the internet and present a false reality. There's a reason why these threads keep popping up--they are grounded in reality. Right. I can't use my own personal experiences here because women of every ethnicity (including mostly my own) rebuff me, but I can use my friends. I know some good looking, suave Asian dudes, and none of them were able to pull many white women. A few, but not many... These same guys pulled tons of Asian girls and had even more pining for them. I'm sure they'd have dated more cute white women if it were an easy goal.
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Meh, most of the white girls I've met these days are all predominantly interested in black men. Must be a London thing. Like I said initially, I'm not one of those sky is falling, ethnic men will never date a white woman, insecure dudes that makes 5 threads a day about my race. Check my history, I've never made one race-related thread. At the same time though, I'm not going to be one of those people that acts like we all have a fair shot and minorities need to suck it up and stop complaining because there is nothing wrong. The numbers are what they are and even if you want to rationalize the numbers as being biased or skewed in one form or another, my personal experiences back up what the numbers are showing. 1
jobaba Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I wouldn't doubt the indian men thing because it seems a lot of asian women and indian women if they're americanized prefer to date outside of their race. Sadly, some of them believe the stereotypes of their own race and would prefer to date someone different. If we're talking okc, I can only provide my anecdotal experience. For any girl of color's page I visited, they all answered the "would you strongly prefer to date someone your own race" question the same: "No" When I visited the pages of white women, that question was split pretty much 50/50 with half answering no and half answering yes. On Match.com too, many more white women have only 'White' as an option. But I do think a lot of black women like to date mostly only black men.
Quiet Storm Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I dont think that is true, at least in the cities. I have seen black guys and other ethnic groups stealing white women in front of white men and they do nothing. This happens in clubs Stealing white women:lmao::lmao: It's just so unfathomable that white women would be genuinely attracted to a black guy... it's easy for some white guys to believe that we're stolen. (Coming from a not fat & attractive white woman that's been with my black husband for 21 years. Gasp! He married me!) 3
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 If you have ever taken a statistics course in college, you know that there are too many variables in place in order for a survey to be accurate. Ya, okay, White women replied to Black men the least on the OKCUPID race study and they replied to Asian men more than Black men, what does that mean? NOTHING, because race studies are a bunch of crap, especially if you do them over the freaking internet. I don't think we should completely throw out the data found by OKC just because it's the internet. If anything, you can argue more people would be honest on the internet since there is a sense of anonymity and no consequences for their feelings/opinions. I can't tell you the number of women on okc that have in their profile message me if: You're white. Sorry, I'm not racist, I just have a preference. Now, I've never in my life heard a woman tell me or any other man "sorry, I only date white guys" or anything close to that, but since it's online, she doesn't have to see any of these ethnic men face to face, so no one is there to judge her and she faces no backlash. In any event, I don't take the findings on OKC as gospel or fact, but there is a little bit of truth in everything. I'm not going to completely disregard their findings. They stand to lose a lot more than they stand to gain with their findings. If they wanted to skew it, or lie, in the hopes of bringing more people to their site, they'd try to play it off like everyone has a fair shot on their site and men of ethnic backgrounds are getting white women. They didn't. Their findings showed that white women stick to white men predominantly, and that white men are the most messaged men, but also the least likely to reply. I commend them for presenting their numbers because a lot of other dating sites would not do the same.
nessaaa Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Only on these fourms I've seen these type of people. Mixed people and middle easterns are the prettiest. 1
MrCastle Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 Being around NY Italians has messed you up just like being around White Southerners has made life a nightmare for BullN. Dude, you are your own worst enemy. Wanna know a freaking reality? 1. Women reject short guys 2. Women reject dark guys 3. Women reject nice guys 4. Women reject middle class guys 5. Women reject arrogant guys Get a pattern? Online dating sites are full of plain janes and women who have standards they will never meet. Quit worrying about the attitude of some east coast Italians who don't even look that good in my experience, you are a Latino, my Puerto Rican friend went to Milan and hooked up with this gorgeous Italian blonde. Embrace what you have. White guys, embrace that you have colored eyes and colored hair. Black guys, embrace that you have, well, ya know! Asian guys, embrace your beautiful golden skin and big brains. Indian guys, embrace your kama sutra skills. Arab guys, embrace your money and how you have lots of it. Hispanic guys, embrace that you are passionate. Quit letting these "studies" which are inaccurate get a rise outta ya. I'm extremely confident in who I am and use what I have to my advantage. Believe me, I'm not one of those guys that makes 5 threads a day crying about white women, but when race threads pop up, I often have to come in and speak my peace. I don't ignore the elephant in the room. It is harder for ethnic men to date white people. I don't mope, I don't bitch about it, I recognize it for what it is and admit it's existence.
joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I don't think we should completely throw out the data found by OKC just because it's the internet. If anything, you can argue more people would be honest on the internet since there is a sense of anonymity and no consequences for their feelings/opinions. I can't tell you the number of women on okc that have in their profile message me if: You're white. Sorry, I'm not racist, I just have a preference. Now, I've never in my life heard a woman tell me or any other man "sorry, I only date white guys" or anything close to that, but since it's online, she doesn't have to see any of these ethnic men face to face, so no one is there to judge her and she faces no backlash. In any event, I don't take the findings on OKC as gospel or fact, but there is a little bit of truth in everything. I'm not going to completely disregard their findings. They stand to lose a lot more than they stand to gain with their findings. If they wanted to skew it, or lie, in the hopes of bringing more people to their site, they'd try to play it off like everyone has a fair shot on their site and men of ethnic backgrounds are getting white women. They didn't. Their findings showed that white women stick to white men predominantly, and that white men are the most messaged men, but also the least likely to reply. I commend them for presenting their numbers because a lot of other dating sites would not do the same. I'm black and all I have ever dated was white women. I would date other races but since I'm from a small town rural America and most women my race in this area prefer a more "street" guy that is all I have to date. The funny thing is the many times I have been the other man the woman cheated on there white male partner lol. Some of them wanted to leave that man to be with me.
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