Wordsmith Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 So this girl I like is coming to my place after college next week, going to cook for her and just have a nice night. managed to get my parents out for it either. Just for the record, 1: I am a virgin, and 2: This is NOT for sex. Anyway, she's too smart to try and fake anything, so I just want to have a real night and make an impression, show her who I really am. And one way I believe to do that is dancing. I suck at it, but I enjoy it. And I want to figure up a way to build up to slow dancing with her. I think that can really give an emotional connection between 2 people since they're doing it physically together and it's not sex. Can any one advise me in how to do this?
SmileFace Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Umm just how you prepare for when friends cone over. Better bake up sone tostedos and clean up. Slow dancing? Does she have an interest in dancing.
Author Wordsmith Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Umm just how you prepare for when friends cone over. No friends are coming over. It's just me & her. We know barely anyone in our college because we both moved from places pretty far away. It's kinda irrelevant as to whether you enjoy dancing, good at it or not. It's something people do and it shows emotion. Not debating whether she enjoys it or not, I'm looking for advice on how to build up to that scenario or something similar :/ Sorry for being slightly rude, I'm absolutely wrecked after my phase 1 training in the reserves.
spiderowl Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 It's isn't irrelevant whether she enjoys dancing or not. If your attitude is that what you like is what matters and she should just be encouraged to go along with it, you will find out soon enough that women know what they like. My first thought was you'd better find out if she likes dancing, otherwise she might feel awkward and unhappy about being pressed to dance. In fact, I know it's a novel idea, but you could find out what she likes doing and then maybe start there.
SmileFace Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I personally would find dancing weird. Is this your first time hanging out with her? (I didn't find your post rude)
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