demolished Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I'm new here. I met my ex-girlfriend 4 years ago online. It has been a long distance relationship for that time, with me driving 2.5 hours every weekend i could to see her. A few months ago, she thought i wasn't trying hard enough to find a job near her and was talking about splitting up. But she decided not to. She'd updated her dating site profile on the advice of some guy she met there who wanted to help her out. About a month ago, she met a guy on that site from across the country, who'd come down there to house sit for a friend. They started talking. She was unattracted to him, so she said. Yesterday he was to go back home. She moved him in with her (no job, car, etc) and dumped me (dumped me first, last thursday). She wants to be friends but won't return calls or emails. I'm hurting so bad i can barely get to work (a job i hate) and home. I cry all the time. 4 years gone and I'm 37 and may not find anyone else. At what point do the thoughts of death, sleepiness, and tears go away? I was divorced 10 years ago and it wasn't this bad. It doesn't help that i have few friends, hate my job, and my family doesn't seem to understand.
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