What are you qualifications?

[CopingGal]

What are your qualifications for a partner?

 

Here are some of mine:

 

 

• honest
  
• compassionate
  
• caring
  
• kind
  
• intelligent
  
• willing to give his time: I won't have to beg for it. He will give it willingly because he wants to be with me.
  
• strength of character
  
• is attracted to me
  
• I am attracted to him in some way
  
• takes responsibility for things he does wrong
  
• has a conscience
  
• Will put me at or near the top of his list. I don't have to be number one, especially if he has children or a demanding job. But I want to be in the top 3.
  
• He is interesting
  
• He treats me well
  
• He has similar morals than I do.
  
• Is working or has money. I don't care if he's very poor, as long as he's working or looking for work if he's able-bodied.
  

How about other people?

[january2011]

Must be a man, that's very important, I think.

 

And compatibility and connection also help.

[Pacman]

Must be a man, that's very important, I think.

 

And compatibility and connection also help.

 

Learning/trying to be one.

 

Harder than it looks

[CopingGal]

Must be a man, that's very important, I think.

 

 

That says a whole lot. My last bf wasn't a man. I don't know what he was, but before I left him I felt like I was in a relationship with an 8 year old.